What Penis Enlargements Really Do - "In Short"

If you have not heard about natural penis enlargement pills, well you must have been living under a rock, in a cave or locked up in solitary confinement somewhere for the past decade. And even then, you may have still received some solicitation regarding penis enlargement pills and other similar products.

It seems it all started a few years back, shortly after the release of that little tiny blue pill. And since then, just think, wow, what a "huge" impact (sorry, could not resist) that tiny pill has had on the industry of male enhancement.

Well, as we all know, the prescription for that blue pill took men from "zero" to "hero" with their wives and girlfriends almost instantly. Every man on the planet seemed to be totally excited (both literally and anatomically) about what this prescription medication could do for them. However, then came the reports of some side effects that were not so pleasant and even a bit scary to say the least.

Some men reported faintness and dizziness, seeing colors (especially the color blue), blood pressure issues and drug interactions (can you say scary?) These are all things that I would not want to experience all in the name of having a firmer erection. Wood...I mean would you? (There I go again!)

So then came the copycat prescriptions, but were they any safer? Yeah, good question right? These male enhancement prescription medications for men still sold like mad, but again, there were the side effects associated with them that made people a bit apprehensive. So what could be the answer to these expensive prescription medications totally made up of synthetic ingredients? How about natural penis enlargement pills?

Well the natural option seemed to take off just as well as the prescription medication option. However, some people had concerns about the natural enhancement pills as well and what they really did to/for a man. So let me help you understand it all.

Do these natural enhancement pills grow a man's penis 3 inches over night? No. Do these pill supplements land a man a role in an adult movie? Probably not. Do these supplements get men multiple women in just hours? I'm going to go ahead and answer for this one with a, "most of the time no!" So what do these supplements do then? How do they do it, and are they safe?

Well in "short" (there I go again), these natural penis enlargement pills are safe because of their natural ingredients. These supplements used age-old, all-natural ingredients (herbal extracts) to enhance circulation and blood flow throughout the body. The herbal ingredients within these pills have literally been used for hundreds of years as natural libido enhancers.

With the use of these pills a man can expect to see better circulation to the penis and of course that means a stronger, fuller erection, enhanced sensitivity and enhanced arousal; and all of this without a prescription! So to sum it all up, these all-natural penis enlargement pills lead to better erection quality and more enjoyable sex for men naturally. Yay for men!

Now, does this mean that every natural penis enhancing pill supplement that is available on the market is legit and a great product for you? No, absolutely not. However, if you can find a reputable company that has been manufacturing men's enhancement pills and products for years, is backed by doctors and has a proven track record (good reputation), then you are probably onto something; a good product.

As always please be sure to consult with your doctor before starting any new supplement; especially if you have any health conditions or are currently taking any type of prescription medications. It's just the smart thing to do.

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Male Chastity: The Myth and the Magic

Male Chastity is one of the most common yet probably the most misunderstood kinks or fetishes out there. I say "common" because every month there are (literally) hundreds of thousands of searches for this and related topics alone; and I say "misunderstood" because the results of those searches usually mean the average searcher ends up even less informed than he or she was at the beginning.

Why?

Because virtually everything you ever read about male chastity is completely wrong, misrepresented and even just plain made up by men who are living their fantasy through a computer screen.

While there are no doubt many definitions of what male chastity is supposed to be here's the one I use: where a man consensually hands over control of his orgasm to his partner.

In other words he wants his partner to be the one to decide when, how, where and even if he gets to orgasm, either when they are enjoying physical intimacy together or when he is on his own.

Orgasm denial is then 'enforced' by the man wearing a chastity device or belt and handing over the key to his partner. These devices can cost anything from $100 to $1500, and more. It's a serious business and men and women take it very seriously indeed.

And that, in a nutshell is all it is.

There are a few things it's important to understand.

First, male chastity is not the same as celibacy.

In fact there is probably nothing worse for a man who craves male chastity to be "locked and left" or ignored. The dynamics of male chastity mean practitioners usually enjoy more sexual intimacy not less. Most men want to be teased to the point of orgasm... and then denied that last, crucial step. I don't fully understand it, but I do know it's true and I know the amazing pleasure and benefits it brings (my husband, John, recently completed a full year of orgasm denial with frequent tease-and-denial sessions).

Following on from this is the common misconception male chastity is a cure-all, a panacea for broken relationships.

It's not. While it's true male chastity and orgasm denial tend to bring couples closer together, it works only when the relationship is fundamentally sound. If the thought of touching you makes your partner's skin crawl, then while locking your dick away from the world might seem like the answer to all prayers, in reality it's just a bomb waiting to go off.

The second thing to understand is male chastity is not the same as male submission (you'll even read accounts of men who are "forced" into chastity against their will; for many reasons, all of them obvious to anyone prepared to think about them, these stories are all lies).

These are common misrepresentations, and ones cheerfully perpetuated by any number of blogs, forums and other discussion groups where the main purpose seems to be to insult, degrade and humiliate men.

Nothing wrong with this if it's what the poor fellows actually want, but in my experience, very few men really do; or, at least, there is a very sizable proportion of men who crave male chastity who don't want all the D&S stuff so many people pretend has to go along with it.

Many female-led relationships do include male chastity as an element of the woman's control of her man, but the reverse is not necessarily true.

My own relationship with my husband, John, for instance, is male-led, which is how we both like it. We run our own consulting business and John is most definitely the one in the driving seat.

Moreover, he's a strong, assertive masculine sort and far removed from the submissive or "sissy" type commonly associated with male chastity. The only 'control' of him I have is I decide when and if he orgasms. It's just a game and if he didn't want to play it he's big enough and strong enough to make it stop.

And we are neither rare nor exceptional: I get hundreds of emails a week from readers who see it the same way. Sometimes this is called "vanilla chastity" and it's far more common than you might think, although it's also true my audience is somewhat self-selecting.

Male chastity is really nothing more than glorified teasing - a game played out over weeks, months and perhaps years rather than just confined to the bedroom.

It's a serious game, to be sure, but that's not to say it can't be fun as well. It's really just a matter of becoming informed.

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Washington Romantic Getaways

Reconnect with your partner, indulge your need for a bit of pampering, or simply take a break from it all at one of these incredibly romantic Washington state escapes. Get away for a week or a weekend; the hardest part may be choosing which to visit.

The Chrysalis Inn & Spa at the Pier

From its perfectly poised location on Bellingham's bay, in the historic Fairhaven district, the Chrysalis Inn sparkles like a crown jewel. Waves lap onto its rocky foreground, and pylons from a once-booming cannery now act as perches for stoic herons. Beyond is the blue ocean, where sailboats breeze by and San Juan Islands dot the horizon.

The essence of the Northwest is brought indoors through sweeping windows and reflected in the interior decor. China slate floors in the lobby lead to 43 ultra-romantic rooms and suites. All feature fine linens, down duvets, gas fireplaces, two-person tubs, ocean-view window seats, and Internet access for those mixing romance with business. Eight treatment rooms in the Chrysalis Spa offer massages, facials, and other blissful body treatments.

The Fino wine bar is the place to mingle at sunset and sample distinctive wines from around the world. While the dinner menu tempts your palette with regional culinary treasures, the view from the windowed wall will keep you focused on the Pacific Northwest. At sunrise, return here for a complimentary buffet breakfast before prying yourself away from this exquisite destination.
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Thornewood Castle Inn & Gardens

For Wayne and Deanna Robinson, their home, just south of Tacoma, is literally their castle. The unique three-story Gothic Tudor, surrounded by old-growth trees and English perennial gardens, shimmers in stately splendor from its lakeside location. The four-acre estate, and original home to Chester A. Thorne in 1908, has a history as colorful as its red-brick exterior. It has been a past favorite haunt for dignitaries and presidents, and more recently, for celebrities during the filming of Stephen King's Rose Red.

The Robinsons have lovingly restored Thornewood Castle into a gracious country inn. Guests are transported back to a romantic era of old-world charm during their stay. Gothic archways and medieval stained glass windows emit a fantastical feel while light floods through them to 27,000 square feet of living space and 54 rooms. Plush Oriental carpets adorn gleaming hardwood floors, wall sconces cast a soft light on richly paneled walls, and handsome decor flows through from the Great Hall, Ballroom, and Music room to eight opulent upper-floor guest quarters. Some boast fireplaces and antique tubs, others offer modern jetted Jacuzzis. All view the palatial gardens, and all are divinely regal.

Bountiful breakfasts are also an important part of the stay. If you visit on the first Thursday of the month, be sure to partake in afternoon high tea. This four-course extravaganza is a lovers' delight.
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Menage Begins With "Men"

It will come as no surprise to any of you who have significant experience interacting with guys, that as a rule, we think about sex frequently...incessantly...almost constantly, whether we are asleep or awake. And in order to keep things always fresh and interesting, we fuel our sexual mental meanderings with images so profoundly decadent, they could make a porn star blush. That is not to say that we would actually participate in these episodes of lurid lewdness, and raucous ribaldry (wow, sexually-related language is fun) if we had the opportunity in real life. No, in many cases our fantasies are most satisfying because they are something we can only dream about without the pressure of having to make them real. And why is this? Because the US that exists in our fantasies is an idealization of who we'd like to be...if we had limitless stamina, sensational athleticism, incredible flexibility, and an ever-erect member of mythic proportions. But as you know, sadly, most of us fall short (no pun intended) in many of these areas. So living out many of our fantasies is, therefore, an impossible dream.

That being said, there is ONE fantasy that most men believe they can actually live out - given the right set of circumstances, an open-minded, accepting partner, and substantial amounts of high-octane libations. And what is this desire that we most optimistically believe we can realize in this lifetime? I am talking about, of course, a threesome, or ménage-a-trois (everything sounds more exotic in French - even snails). And while some guys might consider a three-way with a girl and another guy to be exciting, most men desire a more "traditional" girl/boy/girl arrangement, making us the "meat" in this sexual sandwich.

But why is it that this is the go-to sexual "flight of fancy" of most red-blooded males? Frankly, I'm not sure there has been extensive research on this subject, or if scholarly works addressing this are available for perusal. What I DO know is that, for guys, having simultaneous, sexual relations with two women at once is an example of "more is more." In other words, sex with one woman is good - and with more than one woman is better. Why? Well, first, there are more of our favorite parts to play with: More lips to kiss; more breasts to caress; more vagina's to...well you get the point. Second, we kind of feel like we've won the lottery. Normally we have to move heaven and earth to get ONE woman to be intimate with us. Now we have TWO hot women (okay, in reality they may not always be hot - but in our imaginations, they're smokin') rubbing and kissing on us and using us as their sex toy. What could be better than that? And third, there is always a chance (in our naughty minds, anyway) that any time you get naked girls together in close proximity, they may start getting up-close-and-personal with each other (preferably while we're recovering from our previous carnal cavorting) and we get to have a bird's-eye view. Major voyeurs that we are, seeing two women in an amorous embrace is another big fantasy of the male persuasion. And now after getting reheated from seeing all that lady-lovin', we can join in the festivities and drown in a sea of writhing, moaning, heaving flesh. Then cap it off with a frosty brew and "Sports Center"...and you've got the perfect evening (okay, just kidding about the last part, but hey, it's OUR fantasy, right?).

Of course, for most men, this is a dream that will never be realized. And perhaps it's better that way. The reality of threesomes rarely live up to the hype. And even when they do, misunderstandings, jealousy, regret, and feelings of betrayal often come into play, putting a damper on the proceedings or the memory thereof. Nonetheless, as long as there are horny men (are there any other kind?), and women they find attractive, our noble quest for a ménage-a-trois will continue, unabated. It is our pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And though we know we will probably never find it, we will always forge ahead (mentally, at least) as if this lusty reward is just around the next corner. And if it's not, a Starbucks probably is. So if we can't live our dreams, at least we can console ourselves with a caramel macchiato and undress the comely barista with our eyes.

© 2010 David M. Matthews. All Rights Reserved.

David M. Matthews -
Relationship Advice Guru and Author of:
"Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think"
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Myths About Penis Size, Penis Enlargement and Enjoyable Sex

So, just one more article on penis enlargement and how to have better sex huh? Well no not really! In this article I want to talk about a few myths about penis enlargement and enhancing your sexual experience. People have connected the size of a man's penis to his ability to please a woman, self confidence, etc. Men and society seem to be so focused on the size of a man's penis, but how important is it really? What other factors are involved in having a good sexual relationship?

Does the size of a man's penis determine whether or not they can please their wife in the bedroom? Well, a lot of people would probably jump to the answer of, "Yes, of course it does!" However, there are many more factors involved with a man satisfying his partner other than the size of his penis.

The average sized penis is about 4 to 6 inches in length. So if you fall somewhere in this range, well, you are normal believe it or not. Anything under this length and yes, you might have a "small" problem. However, it's not just about the length of a man's penis that helps a woman to reach orgasm and be satisfied. It's also about girth, or the thickness of the penis. The girth of a man's penis is important because the most sensitive areas of a woman's vagina are located at the opening of the vagina. In other words, simply having a long and skinny penis might not get the job done. So in "short" (Ha!), a thick penis can be very beneficial in pleasuring your partner and hitting on all of the sensitive areas of the vagina.

Now, what else is involved in order to help a woman reach orgasm? Well, as some of you may know, and like I've been saying, it's not just about penile size. For women, it's also about an emotional and mental connection. So if a man can "connect" with his partner on an emotional and mental level, he is halfway there! Also, lots of foreplay doesn't hurt! Duh!

Now back to penis enlargement and penis size. Penis size can of course make for a better and more pleasurable sexual experience for both you and your partner. Natural penis enlargement pills are a great tool for men to reach their maximum potential safely and naturally. Penis enlargement pills, if bought from a reputable company, can work wonders for men. They can enhance sensation, arousal, and sensitivity and give men firmer and fuller erections. And a firmer and fuller erection means a thicker penis; and what does a thicker penis do? Well, as I said earlier, a thicker penis means that the nerves at the opening of a woman's vagina receive more "attention" so to speak.

To recap, a plan I suggest is to first, find a good penis enlargement supplement (for you men of course!) This will bring you to your full potential and enhance all aspects of your sexual experience. Two, take into consideration that having a good connection both mentally and emotionally with your partner will drastically increase attraction and help out with improving the intensity in the bedroom. Three, add in lots of foreplay and four, enjoy!

Now, if you have any medical problems at all, or if you are currently taking any type of prescription medications, please be sure to consult with your physician before starting to take any natural penis enlargement pills or other natural supplements. Always do your research and know what you are putting into your body! Be healthy and good luck!

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Multiple Orgasms - How To Give Your Woman Incredible Sexual Pleasure Over And Over Again

In this article you are going to discover how to give your woman INCREDIBLE sexual PLEASURE, not just once -- but over and over again. The way you do this is of course, by giving her MULTIPLE ORGASMS.

Please follow this closely because 95% of men just don't understand what I'm about to share with you...

The Problem With Clitoral Orgasms

Clitoral orgasms are wonderful.

They give women a lot of sexual pleasure and as a man, you should aim to give your woman a clitoral orgasm every time you make-love to her. (You can do this be giving her excellent ORAL SEX or by stimulating her clitoris with your fingers).

So far so good.

But, there is a problem with this type of orgasm and here's what it is:

After a woman has a clitoral orgasm, her clitoris usually becomes really sensitive. Way too sensitive to stimulate any further.

What this means is that women can usually only have one clitoral orgasm per 'sexual encounter'. In other words -- if you want to give your woman MULTIPLE ORGASMS, you need to 'get her off' in other ways.

So the bottom line is that the clitoral orgasm is great, but it's not the only type of pleasure you need to give your woman.

The Secret To Multiple Orgasms

You could try to give your woman a nipple orgasm.

You could try to give her a squirting orgasm or even an ANAL ORGASM. "YES", really - those do exist.

But here's the thing...

If you want to become GREAT IN BED and be the kind of guy that can totally blow your woman's mind, you have to do things in a sensible order.

And squirting, anal and nipple orgasms should come after the type of orgasm I'm about to share with you:

The VAGINAL ORGASM.

Vaginal orgasms are the secret to giving your woman MULTIPLE ORGASMS.

Here's why:

Once you give your woman a vaginal orgasm, her vagina does not become overly sensitive. This is in sharp contrast to what happens to the clitoris.

Can you see where this is going?

Yeah, you got it...

This means that once you give your woman one vaginal orgasm, you can then go ahead and give her another and another and another.

I've known many women who could quite easily have in excess of 10 of these wonderful orgasms every time they had sex. Needless to say -- these women were always way more sexually fulfilled than the average woman whose man is only giving her clitoral orgasms.

By the way, to discover more about how to give your woman vaginal orgasms and truly GREAT SEX, click HERE.
Adam Armstrong is a Sex Coach who teaches men how to give their women Incredible Sexual Pleasure

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One Night Stands With Women - The Mindset That You Need to Have

There certainly is a certain mindset that a man needs to have if he is going to be successful at having one night stands. If you are like most guys and you are preoccupied with all of the little details and you have a hard time staying in the moment when you are around a woman that you really desire, then you are probably going to have a hard time if you want to participate in your own one night stand. You need to cultivate the right mindset to do well because if you neglect this aspect of things, you are going to regret it later on.

Let's Get Started -

The first thing that I think you have to do is something that is very counter intuitive and you have to act as if having sex with a woman is the last thing on your mind - at least, at first you have to appear this way. This all goes back to the fact that women are invariably turned off by men that act as if the only thing on their mind is to get laid. Well, at least the majority of women are. So, that is one thing that you need to do right from the very beginning. At some point, of course you are going to have to make it clear that you are up for a little romp in the bedroom, but not in the very beginning.

Make Her Feel Like You Are One in a Million -

Most women are naturally going to be resistant to the idea of hooking up with a guy for a one night stand. So, they are going to have their defenses up and that is okay. You can deal with that and still end up with a fun evening IF you are able to make her feel like you are a one in a million kind of guy. What I mean by that is - most women won't regret a one night stand if they feel like they have just met a great guy who is not likely to cross their path just any day of the week. So, you need to have the mindset that you really ARE a one in a million kind of guy. Feel that way and you will begin to project that air about you and she will begin to think of you that way.

Make Her Feel Desire -

Obviously, hooking up with a woman for a one night fling requires that she is sexually attracted to you. More to the point, she needs to feel intense DESIRE to be with you. This is not an easy thing to make a woman feel, but when you know what you are doing and you can make her feel that way, it becomes a lot more probable that she will end up with you. The thing is, desire has to be created slowly at first and then escalated as you go along. At least, in my experience that is what will give you the highest success rate when it comes to getting her into bed with you. You have to have the slow and steady mindset if you want to win the race and make her feel like she desires to be with you.

It's not that hard to learn how to have a one night stand when you know exactly what to do to make a woman feel desire to be with YOU.

Go to: How to Seduce Women to learn EXACTLY what you need to do.

Copyright © 2012 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

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Oral Sex - How To Drive Your Woman Crazy With Your Tongue And Give Her A Powerful Orgasm

Every woman loves receiving really good ORAL SEX. The problem is that most men don't know how to do it. However, after you've read this article, you'll know exactly how to drive your woman crazy with your tongue and give her a powerful orgasm.

So here's the good stuff:

How To Give Your Woman Amazing Oral Sex In 7 Easy Steps

1. Take Your Time

Most men are way too speedy in the bedroom. Don't make this mistake. Take some time to kiss and caress your woman's body and get her IN THE MOOD before you give her oral sex.

2. Give Her A Massage

Have her lie on her back and massage her breasts and thighs -- but don't touch her genitals. Allow your hands to get close, but don't touch. This'll get her really turned on and desperate for you to go down on her.

3. Start With Her Labia

When you've spent some time TEASING her and building her SEXUAL ANTICIPATION, then you can start to give her oral sex. Start by licking, sucking and even gently biting her labia.

4. Move On To Her Vagina

NOTE: The vagina is the hole itself

Next, start to penetrate her vagina with your tongue. This'll really get her excited.

5. Lick Her Clitoris

Now you can start to lick her clitoris. Start gently and gradually increase the pressure until you find something she responds really well too.

6. Don't Stop!

Once you find something she really enjoys -- don't stop. Just keep doing the same thing, with the same pressure, until she has a powerful orgasm.

7. How To Make It Even Better

You can insert your finger inside your woman as you give her oral sex. When you do this, you should aim to stimulate her G-Spot or Deep Spot. The result of this is that you'll give your woman an even more incredible orgasm... One that is part clitoral and part vaginal. The only thing is, you need to get VAGINAL ORGASMS working on their own, before you try to combine oral sex and fingering techniques. If you don't do this she'll end up just having a clitoral orgasm with your fingers inside her. Not the same thing.

What you want is for the vaginal stimulation to get her off just as much as the clitoral stimulation and this will only happen if you make her vaginally orgasmic first, before combining the methods.

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Orgasm Denial for Married Couples

Orgasm denial in marriage is becoming increasingly popular, odd as this may seem on the surface. In fact, more people are looking to this as an option for growing closer and working on their relationship than ever before, aided to a large extent by the amount of information easily available on the Internet.

And, indeed, male orgasm denial is an offbeat, but reliable, way to grow closer together.

But, a warning: you have to really be committed to make male orgasm denial work. It isn't as easy as putting on a male chastity device and then not having sex.

Moreover, it most certainly is NOT a power play competition between you and your wife. Male orgasm denial is a decision you must both talk about, decide the Pro's and Con's and then weigh your options.

Orgasm Denial: How to Begin

One way to begin male orgasm denial in your marriage is to research it as much as possible. You must be willing to read other stories and hear tales about the benefits and difficulties of this.

Of course, it won't always be easy to decide which tales are fact and which are fiction. I've read some stories that I know could not possibly be true; however, they are still available as soon you search for male chastity stories online.

Don't get trapped into thinking bondage and mind games are the requirements for male chastity. Although you can decide this is your preferred method, it is not what I am talking about.

Orgasm denial is not meant to be an emotional tool for your marriage

It's not a way to punish each other and make you, specifically, your wife's slave. Male chastity is actually a way for you and your wife to focus on each other.

However, the great thing about this is you will be learning all new ways to please your wife.

You will be much more focused on her emotionally, spending more time talking and doing things together. You will also be completely focused on her sexually, wanting to please her. You want her to be completely satisfied in your marriage and that is why you are denying yourself the pleasure/

Many men who practice orgasm denial say that their partner is much happier now. The focus has shifted from you to your beloved and that has a serious, and beautiful, impact on your vows.

You focus more on the intellectual side of your marriage, you spend more time cuddling and caring with the emotional aspect of your lives together, and you are pleasuring your partner better because you want to see your partner pleased.

You may even get to the point where both of you decide you will never get to orgasm again. This is not inevitable, but is more likely than you might think (or dare to hope...).

Summary

It might take a little time to get used to the idea of male orgasm denial. You could be thinking to yourself that you really don't want to go long without being able to cum.

I understand that, too, but the rewards are spectacular! Another problem is that your partner might not want you to practice this at first.

She may be thinking your lack of orgasm is going to be a reflection on her as a woman. It's a common misconceptions women have, and it's important that you show her she couldn't be more wrong. Show her by pleasing her and being the husband he needs you to be.

After all, isn't that why you're doing this?

If so, then it's wise to dig a little deeper, don't you think?

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Pleasuring Her - 4 Sexy Ways To Get In The Mood

Do you want to have a good time in bed? Do you want your partner to need you so much that she becomes the one who is initiating sex most of the time?

How to have great sex? To certain people, great sex is about rehearsing some sex positions that they read from a self-help book. But it is more than that. You have to arouse your partner and yourself every time when you jump into the bed. You have to be comfortable with what you are doing, your partner has to be aroused by you and you also need to be turned on by your partner. In other words, great sex should be mutually satisfying.

Here are a few things you can do that can help her to reach orgasm easily and make your ego feel a lot better.

(1) Sensual touch

Touching is very important and is also one of the easiest ways to please her. Women respond very strongly to touch. Make sure you combine every of your touch with eye contact. Keeping eye contact with her will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch.

Take the time to caress her ears, nape and hair will be fantastic in heating things up. You kiss her softly on her back, chests or breasts, down to her tummy and inner thighs. You treat every area of the body as an erogenous zone, even touching and kissing those off-neglected areas such as the neck, throat, inner arms and eyelids. During touching, you pay attention to how she reacts to your various ways of stroking and adjust according to her preferences. All these moves will definitely turn her on.

(2) Setting the mood

Setting a comfortable environment is the key to preparing for sex and ensuring a satisfying experience. Ambiance is very important for the proper sexual mood. Accentuate your room by getting some candles. It will be better to use scented candles such as chamomile which can help to relax the body and make the atmosphere more conducive.

Make sure the room temperature is not as hot as a furnace or as cold as a refrigerator. Playing some instrumental music (or depending on what arouses your partner) is good for keeping her in the mood. Make the room smell sweet, relaxing and enticing.

(3) Oral stimulation

Oral sex is a great gate-way to intercourse. Lick her slowly all around. It is only when her clitoris is swollen and her breath is getting short and rapid that you start to lick on it firmly. You explore the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue and lips. As she gets more aroused, you can spend more time directly stimulating her clitoris.

Try alternating between slow and fast, up and down, side-to-side tongue flicks when you are on her clitoris. Use your hand to supplement your tongue action by caressing the her inner thighs, rubbing her breasts and squeezing her nipples. When you sense she is getting close, (judging from her physical and vocal responses) you maintain a rhythm that suits her, providing consistent pressure on her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

(4) Be creative

You can get a self-help book which tells about the various lovemaking positions. You read this together with your partner. After this both of you can discuss and decide the new positions that will be more intimate in lovemaking. Both of you can also experiment with role-playing by dressing (or even cross-dressing) and acting as someone you always desire to be. You can also use adult toys to help you last longer when you are stimulating your partner. You can consider light bondage such as blind-folding and hand-cuffing to sharpen the sexual response when one of the senses is being blocked out.

Lovemaking should always be comfortable and done in a way that satisfies both of you. Learning how to have great sex is essential to keep the relationship with your partner stronger.

Here are just 4 tips to get you started. Due to space constraint, you can read the rest of the tips from here

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Seducing a Woman - Why You Should Work on Your Conversation

Inevitably, when it comes to seduction, most men seem to want to learn gimmicks and tricks that they believe will give them almost magic like powers to entice a woman. Well, excuse me for laughing, but that is just foolish to believe you are going to ever end up learning tricks and gimmicks that are going to give you some sort of supernatural power to seduce a woman. It just does not work out that way. What ultimately DOES work well for most men, is learning to use conversation as a way to create attraction. There is a reason why chatting up a woman the right way works quite well to make her feel like she wants you badly.

And it has to do with the natural desire that human beings have to feel connected to someone. We all want to feel that and we rarely do. I don't mean the connection that you feel to a co worker because you both hate the job and make fun of the boss behind their back. I mean the kind of connection that makes you believe that romance is real and that life is GOOD. That is the kind of connection that all human beings want to feel and yet, so rarely do.

And that is why working on your conversation is one of the best things that you can do if you want to be able to attract and seduce a woman. Because it is through communication, both verbal and non verbal that we usually feel connected to someone. What you have to avoid is that urge that some men have to only talk sexual to a woman that they want to get into bed. Even though that may be what you want and where your head is really at, you still have to talk to her without coming across as being too sexual in conversation. Otherwise, you can easily end up sounding like a pervert who is just looking to get laid.

Don't Sound Like You Are Dying for Some Action...

You don't want to come across that way. Not if the woman that you are trying to entice just happens to have a little bit of class and confidence. If she is one of the more high quality women that you come across, you want to be very subtle about the way that you talk to her, even when you do throw in a little innuendo here and there.

Most of all, what you want to do is to make her feel like she is having such a good time talking to you, that she does not want it to end. When you can make her feel that way, then it is not that hard to get her to leave the club or the bar or wherever else you are and get her to either go home with you, or to at least go somewhere private where you can have some fun with one another. So, if you are looking for gimmicks and tricks, you may want to skip all of that and instead learn how to talk to women in a way that creates attraction. If you can do that, then you should easily be able to get a woman into bed with you.

Seriously, when you know exactly how to use conversation to seduce a woman, things get a whole lot easier for you. Go to: http://howtoattractandseducewomen.com/ to learn more about the underground seduction secrets that you need to know, including how to use simple words to make her want you!

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Seduce A Woman With These Four Dangerous Techniques

There is not a guy out there who has not longed for the chance to get every girl he sees. The problem is, none of us are all great at being able to seduce women. We think we are strong and powerful guys, but somehow a woman can bring us to our knees. That is the problem my friend, you are lacking the self confidence needed to attract women and in the end seduce them. Gaining self confidence is a process, but I want to share a few tips that will bring it on a little faster. And always remember the old adage, you need to fake it til you make it.

The art of seduction comes down to one primary thought, it is all about raw sexual attraction. If you can gain the ability to have that show through, seducing women becomes an easy game. These tips are quick, simple and easy to implement. In fact you could put all of these into action today and be a better man at seduction.

Ready To Be Successful At Seduction And Get The Girl YOU Really Want?

1. Don't Under Estimate Her Emotions

We all gripe and complain about the emotions a woman has, it seems every time we turn around they are close to tears or angry. The fact is, they aren't, it's just what we have come to believe. What you need to do is pick up on their emotions and play off of them. You need to be able to make a woman feel the right way. You have to bring out a sense of sexual urgency and energy within her. For lack of better words, you have to set the flame on high deep within her. When you are able to sense and trigger the right emotions, any women is within reach for you.

2. There Is More To Seduction Than Just Techniques

Every where you look online, you will read about techniques for better sex, better blowjobs and better ways to pick up girls. You have to break free of all the techniques out there, because all they will do, is just bog you down with details. Part of being able to seduce a woman is getting into the right mindset and breaking the chains of who you are right now. You don't have a girl, because you are going about things the wrong way. So that shows me, you need to change your direction of thinking. Once you do this, you will see a major change in being able to get women.

3. It Doesn't matter If You Are As Ugly As A Goat

Not all of us were blessed with Brad Pitt's good genes, and short of plastic surgery there really isn't much we can do about it. Although don't let your looks hold you back, because they don't matter as much as you think. If you are not the best looking guy in the world, that's not what's holding you back with women. It's because you have always heard the ugly guy never gets the girl, and you have suffered a blow to your ego and self confidence year after year. So forget about the looks, go buy some new clothes and give yourself a change of style. There is some truth to the saying that the clothes make the man. Even if you can only afford one really good outfit, go buy it and see the change it gives your attitude. Just keep yourself clean and be unique, let your personality shine through.

4. One Final Tip To Get Her In Bed

Every woman you meet or talk to already knows that you want to sleep with them. So they put up barrier after barrier to keep you from the prize. Your job is to break through each one of those barriers. Women are on the winning side, they can have sex with any guy they want. It's just the way it is, they have the vagina, we have the penis. We are always going to be chasing them, not the other way around. So plan to be breaking down those walls they put up, they already know what you want. Once you get past those initial ways, seducing her becomes an easy task.

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Making Love to Your Wife So She'll Adore You and Want to Please You

The key to making love to your wife so she'll adore you and get pleasure out of pleasing you is simple: make it about her.

Make the effort to ensure that it's a thrilling experience for her.

Plan ahead sometimes.? Start the seduction outside the bedroom.? Tell her what you want to do to her.? Tell her what she does to you.? Tell her what it'll be like.

Why?? Because for her, love-making isn't just about the sex.? Yes, a woman wants to ravaged and taken sometimes.? But she also wants to be seduced.

Seduce her before you even get to the bedroom.

Make it about her.

And here's the cool part: if your focus is pleasing her, then her focus will be pleasing you.

Nice!

Peace,

Jemal.

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P.P.S. If you want to learn more about how to please her in the bedroom, read the articles below:

Sexually Pleasing a Woman: The ABCs of Pleasuring Your Wife

Do You Know the Different Couples Love Making Positions and Why They Matter?

2 Key Tips for Pleasing a Woman: Foreplay & Afterplay

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Sexually Pleasing a Woman: The ABCs of Pleasuring Your Wife

Below are 6 principles for sexually pleasing a woman that are the foundations for fireworks in the bedroom with your wife.

They are principles more than they are techniques.? I have made them simple to remember by alphabetizing them.

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Here we go:

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle A: Attention.
Pay attention!? Be attentive.? Be present.? Don't check out.? Observe.? Study her hands.? Notice her breathing.? Admire the two dimples in her lower back.? Take note of when her breathing gets harder, when her body stiffens, when she's wet, when she's not, how she arches her back, how she sways her body.? Take note of how she touches you, when she squeezes you, when her pupils dilate, the wimpers she makes.? You get the idea.

Attention is the most important of all the tips for pleasing a woman.? If you don't do this one, then the others won't do you nearly as much good.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle B: Buildup.
It's usually more pleasurable for a woman if you build the anticipation before sex.Tease her.? Talk to her.? Drop hints.? And so on.In Islamic tradition we would say, "Send ahead a messenger."? What messenger?? Sexy talk.? Kissing and foreplay.Anticipation is like a drug for a woman.? How would you like to get her "addicted" to you?

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle C: Continuity.
When being intimate with your wife, touch her continuously.? Keep some part of your body in contact with some part of hers.If you need to lift a hand, keep the other on her body.? If you need to remove both hands, keep your thigh pressed against her.? And so on.

When you stop touching her altogether, totally breaking contact, even momentarily, it snaps the intimacy that you've established. If there's a particular reason you want to snap the intimacy and create that distance (such as to create heightened anticipation),then so be it, but as a general rule, keep the touch uninterrupted.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle D: Decrease.
I love this principle.? It's so counter-intuitive, but it's magic.? One ladies' man I know--David--calls it: "2 steps forward, 1 step back."? And he's exactly right.Many guys just race for the "finish line."? But not you: you're gonna make your way forward, and then...take a step back.? As you heighten her arousal, stop escalating, and instead decrease it.

Then escalate again after a bit.? Two steps forward, one step back.Why?? Because it skyrockets her anticipation, her attraction, her desire, her longing.It may seem mean at first glance, but any woman and any guy who understands women knows the power of this.? She will be frustrated in the moment, but she will love you for it after.You'll simply drive her crazy.? A good crazy.

An added bonus with this tip is that it gives you a lot of control over the relationship in the bedroom.? That's a good thing.? Not for the sake of your ego, but for your wife's sake.? Women love to be with a man in control.As I said, you'll simply drive her crazy.? And she will love it.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle E: Extension.
This one is so cool.? All it involves is extending her skin.? Apparently, it does something to the nerve endings to heighten the pleasure.? I don't remember exactly how it works, but what matters is that it works.

When you're touching your wife, stretch the part of her body that you're touching.? For example, try kissing her under her jaw at the top of her neck, but as you do it, pull the skin of her jaw with your thumb.? Or tug a handful of her hair when you kiss the front of her neck so you tilt her head back and stretch her neck.

You can do this on various parts of her body.? For example, if you kiss her under her breast, push her breast up with your hand to extend the part of her skin that your lips are touching.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle F: Focalizing.
What I mean by this is working from the out in, from the extremities to the centre.Don't go straight for her torso.? Don't go straight for her breasts or her genitals.? Work your way in.? Build the anticipation.? Give her a chance to ache for you.

Even if you're focusing on her breasts, don't go straight for her nipples.? Focus on her outer breast, the top, the bottom, the sides.? Until she can't stand it any longer.? Then work your way to her nipples.? Focus on her hands, starting with her fingertips.? Work your way up her arm.? Move to her shoulder.? Her neck.? Her collarbone (that's a great spot).? Then to the more central parts of her body. These are just six simple principles--the ABCs--but they are magic.? Apply them and you'll see wonders.

Each of the ABCs of sexually pleasing a woman returns to at least one of The 7 Secrets of Magnetism , which apply outside the bedroom and in.

If you found this article beneficial, and you want to take your Sexual Magnetism to the next level, then make sure you check out my new Wife Magnet program, which I just launched.

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Solving Men's Marriage Problems

Marriage Problems vary. But their causes tend to have similar patterns. And their solutions tend to have similar patterns.

Understand the principles at work behind the problems and their solutions, and you'll quickly find yourself a happy husband, in a happy marriage, with a happy wife eager to please you.

Let's get straight into them:

Step 1: Take Charge Of Your Relationship.

What does that mean? It means that solving your marriage problems is in your hands. No one else?s. Not your wife's. Not a friend's. Not a counselor's.

Her end of the relationship is merely a reaction to you. If you end up always reacting to her, then you'll end up with a cycle of marriage problems that you can't seem to break out of.

So, instead of leaving your relationship to itself, or leaving it to your wife, take charge of it!

If your problems are about how she is treating you, recognize that she is merely reacting to how you are. If you are different, her response will be different.

Let me repeat that for you, because everything builds on that point: If you are different, her response will be different.

So don?t blame her. You may think she?s being unfair. ?How could she be that way?!? Well?because she?s responding to how you are with her right now.

So start acting as if your relationship is 100% in your hands.

Step 2: Appreciate That Marriage Problems Are Typically Emotional.

Now that you?re ready to take charge of your relationship and take responsibility for it, you need to recognize why you have marriage problems.

Up to this point, you?ve failed to spark the right emotions in her. That?s the only reason you?ve lost her.

Your problems are due to emotional reasons.

Not logical reasons.

Not moral reasons.

They may be clothed in logical or moral reasons, but those aren?t the real reasons.

Those are merely her rationalizing her emotions. Understand that.

If you spark in her the right emotions, you will find her rationalizing illogical and even immoral behaviour. To justify following her emotions. Simple.

Warning: Once you understand how to spark her emotions, you will find you have a lot of influence over her. So use it with care! As they say, with great power, comes great responsibility.

When sparking her emotions, you need to be a man about it, and take care of your woman. Use your influence over her with care, and she will love you and thank you forever.

What does that mean on a practical level?

It means a few things:

Just as your marriage problems are because you pressed the wrong emotional buttons, the solution is to press the right emotional buttons. It?s that simple. That?s the good news.

It also means that you need to stop trying to convince her with rational and moral arguments.

?Convince? her with emotional arguments.

What do I mean by ?convince? her with emotional arguments? I mean influence her by affecting her emotions, by inspiring in her emotions of attraction, rather than emotions of repulsion.

Because that?s all that has happened: she has responded with repulsion to how you are?but she can just as easily respond to how you are with attraction.

Which brings me to the next step?

Step 3:Press The Right Emotional Buttons To Create Attraction.

It's simple: if you make your wife more attracted to you, you will find that most of your marriage problems will take care of themselves.

Some Common Marriage Problems:

"My wife doesn't listen to me."
"My marriage feels flat."
"My wife doesn?t respect me."
"My wife complains about me."
"My wife is always whiny and naggy."
"My wife looks at me more as a roommate than as her man."
"My wife isn't interested in sex."

And so on.

The Real Problem:

You're missing one or more of the foundations of attraction.

If you make her attracted to you, you will find her far more attentive, exciting, playful, radiant, respectful, cheerful (giggly, in fact), seductive, and eager to please you.

So make sure you maintain the foundations of attraction at all times.

If you're yet to learn the foundations of magnetic attraction, then keep reading the articles on this site.

Feel free to check out these related articles:

Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs To Look For In Your Marriage

3 Reasons Why Marriages Fail For Men

Peace,

Jemal.

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Hey, bro.? Welcome to my Just Husbands Blog.? Here you'll find valuable tips on how to have a happy marriage.? Check it out regularly so you don't miss anything.? Jemal.

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I just wanted to apologize to all of you for not having been in touch for a while. I know several of you have written me asking for advice, and I haven't replied to you all yet. I've been struggling to manage my time so that I respond to your questions. I know the world must feel as if it's collapsing over you, and it breaks my heart that I haven't responded (my chest feels constricted even as I write this). I'm working out a plan to stay in touch better. Jemal.

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Tips for Pleasing a Woman: Foreplay & Afterplay

Two of the most important tips for pleasing a woman are:
1) Foreplay;
2) Afterplay.

I once heard a quote: ?A man who engages in foreplay understands sex.? A man who engages in afterplay understands love.?

If you want a happy wife?and thereby a happy marriage?then you need to understand both sex and love.? A wife needs (and deserves) high quality of both.

As for foreplay, it should be your default rule.? It doesn?t mean that a woman never wants to skip quickly to sex.? Quite the contrary.? Women are far more sexual than men often imagine and tend to be very eager for sex if their man has built up their desire for him.?

So when to engage in foreplay and when to go straight for sex?? You have two guidelines for that:
1)?Make it about her.? If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read The Key to Making Love.
2)?Pay attention!? If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read Sexually Pleasing a Woman.

As for afterplay, it?s really not that hard?don?t freak out!? Just gently kiss her for a while and hold her for even longer.? This will make her feel loved on an emotional level, not just desired on a physical level.? Both are necessary.

If your afterplay heightens her desire, then it may end up being foreplay, instead.? All the better?unless you?re exhausted at that point.? Then I can?t help you.? Sorry.

I have a saying that I tell husbands, ?Treat your woman like a queen.? But be her king, not her subject (or another queen).?? Foreplay can help make you her king.? Afterplay will help you make her feel like a queen.

Peace,

Jemal.

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Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs To Look For In Your Marriage

If it's been bothering you and you're wondering about unfaithful cheating wife signs, first let me ask you the following questions:

Has your wife ever seemed bored with you? Have you ever felt your wife disrespects you? Has your wife ever complained that you?re emotionally unavailable or distant?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, your wife may be feeling the typical emotions of women who cheat.

Before you continue reading, ask yourself, ?Why am I here??

If the answer is, I need to to know all the possible unfaithful cheating wife signs, so I can catch my cheating wife, then I have to remind you that this site is about how to achieve a happy marriage. But the goal of ?busting your wife? is a recipe for continued misery.

Catching her and proving how bad she is, and what a victim you are doesn?t solve the problem.

No, man! Only if you determine the real problem and do something about it can you solve the problem and have a happy marriage.

You haven?t solved the problem yet because you haven't yet figured out the real problem. And you need to focus on the real problem.

But What If You Knew The REAL Problem?

Would you rather spend your life focused on studying unfaithful cheating wife signs and maybe even catch your wife cheating...or would you rather get to the point where you never again worry about her cheating, because she adores you so much that her cheating is just an impossibility?

Consider changing the way you look at the whole issue of unfaithful cheating wife signs. Instead of trying to discover the signs that a woman is cheating, I will show you the signs of men that women cheat on.

What you really need to know are the unfaithful cheating wife signs present in you, not her.

What does that mean? That means that there are certain kinds of men that wives tend to cheat on. Wouldn't you wanna know the types of husbands that wives cheat on, just in case you are one?

The 3 Kinds of Husbands That Women Cheat On:

Husband-Type #1: The Bore.

This is a man who has little appeal. He lacks passion in his own life, and he doesn?t bring passion to his life or to his wife?s. And he doesn?t make his wife feel good about herself.

He may find his wife indicating that an office colleague of hers ?makes me feel better about myself.? Or he may find her showing little emotion and having little expression on her face.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more appeal, by incorporating more pleasure and passion in your life and in your wife?s.

In your own life, get more involved in activities you love, for example a hobby or sport.

In your marriage, you could start by romancing your wife more.

So that's sign #1 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a bore.

Husband-Type #2: The Chump.

This is a man who lacks dominance. He doesn?t have a lot of control over his life and is not ?alpha.? He?s not a leader. He?s not strong.

He may find his wife disrespecting him, despising him, or walking all over him, rolling her eyes when he speaks, calling him a ?loser,? and so on. At the same time, she may esteem or respect some other man or men.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more dominance. Start by ensuring your life is filled with purpose. Learn your life purpose as a man, learn how to set and achieve goals.

Take control of your life and of your interaction with your wife.

Lead! Lead! Lead! Don?t be a follower, especially a follower of your wife. You will have to step on some toes sometimes, including your wife?s. But to establish the dominance in your life that your wife needs to respect you, you?re gonna have to do it. So be courageous and get used to stepping up as a man.

So that's sign #2 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a chump.

Husband-Type #3: The Jerk.

This is a man who hasn?t maintained intimacy. He doesn?t give his wife enough attention, and he hasn?t built a strong connection with her. He may be distant and disinterested, or may be outright cruel.

He may find his wife feeling lonely. She may express her loneliness to him by complaining that he?s ?emotionally unavailable.? He may find his wife desperately trying to connect with him or get noticed by him, even if it?s by lashing out at him or acting outrageous.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, you need to build more intimacy with your wife. You can do this by showing her she?s loved.

If she needs to be touched, touch her.

If she needs a thoughtful gift, get her one.

(No, not a drill, dude! Here?s a pretty easy one: if she likes flowers?and what girl doesn?t?get her flowers! But put some thought into it: learn what flowers she likes, what colours she likes. Give it some attention. Get the florist?s help if you have to. But put care and attention into it. And please don?t tell me you feel gay picking out flowers. You?re masculine enough that you can get away with it.)

If she needs compliments, give them to her. And again, give it some attention. Look her deep in the eyes (don?t break eye contact) and tell her something you actually appreciate about her.

If she needs something done for her, do it without her telling you to. Clear the snow off her car when she?s not expecting it. She?ll feel loved and cared for.

If she needs your time, make time for her.

Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so pay attention to your wife?s particular.

And that?s the secret: pay attention, man!

Finally, please don?t do any of the below intimacy-smashers. (If they're present in your marriage, then consider them strong unfaithful cheating wife signs--if not now, then in the future.)

1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by saying stuff like, ?Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!?

2) Get all defensive when she says stuff you disagree with. Just stay present with her and try to appreciate where she?s coming from.

3) Be snide or insulting with her, by rolling your eyes when she?s arguing with you, taking ?low blows? at her, and stuff like that.

4) Shut her out, especially when emotions are getting really heated. There?s probably nothing that distances her from you more than this. When you think to yourself, ?I?m not dealing with this crap!? and you want to walk away from her or just ignore her, try to stay present with, even if you find it damn tough.

Otherwise, you?ll find your wife feeling alienated from you, and you might end up finding her finding that companionship with some other guy?I hate saying that?when she really wanted it with you.

Okay, so you came here looking for the signs of an unfaithful, cheating wife in her. But now you can recognize the signs in yourself that may lead you to have an unfaithful, cheating wife.

If any of those signs are present in you, then get rid of them. Re-read this article, because there?s a lot in it.

Read other articles on this site, cuz in other articles I reinforce the concepts I explained here and I sometimes go into more detail.

The idea of a wife cheating on her husband repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It?s something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But I?m not here to lecture the women.

If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I?m speaking to you, a fellow husband. And you only have control over your own self. So take charge of your own life. Your wife will naturally follow?or you might decide she?s not the right woman for you.

Regardless, if you apply the advice I?ve given you here, you?ll naturally find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to bust your wife cheating, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.

Make sure to read this article, too, if you haven?t already:

"3 Steps To Solving All The Marriage Problems A Husband Will Ever Face"

Peace,

Jemal.

P.S. To better understand what to do about being a Bore, Chump, or Jerk, make sure you get my free Magnetism Method course: "How to Have Your Wife Adore You and Do Anything for You."

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Sex Advice - How To Have A Happy, Fulfilling And Wildly Sexual Relationship With Your Woman

In this article I'm going to share some very powerful SEX and relationship advice with you. So if you want to have a happy, fulfilling and WILDLY SEXUAL relationship with your woman -- I suggest you read on carefully...

Most guys don't know how to please their women.

And when I say that most guys don't know how to please their women, I'm not just talking about INSIDE THE BEDROOM.

I'm talking about outside the bedroom too.

Allow me to explain...

After years of trying to answer the question of:

"What do women really want in a man?"

I finally came up with the answer.

And the answer is that every woman wants 4 main things from their men. Those 4 things being:

- A man who APPRECIATES her
- A man who makes her feel really SEXY and FEMININE
- A man who develops a strong and deep EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with her
- A man who gives her INCREDIBLE SEX

That's it.

That's what every single woman on the planet wants.

Sure, they might also want a great personality, a man with money, power and/or fame -- they might want a good-looking man or a man with a big 'tool'... but all those things are secondary to the 4 things in the list above.

So if you want to have a successful long-term relationship with your woman -- you have to give her those things.

Let's take a look at each one in a little more detail:

Appreciation

The simple fact is that nobody (man or woman) likes to feel like they are being taken for granted.

So you must show your woman that you APPRECIATE her.

Taking her out on a 'date' once a week is a good start.

Saying 'thank you' when appropriate is a smart thing to do as well.

Telling her how much you appreciate having her in your life would be a clever thing to do as well.

Get it?

Okay, let's move on...

Sexy and Feminine

Every woman wants to feel sexy and feminine.

A great way to make your woman feel this way is to pay her sincere compliments about the way she looks and never say anything negative about the way she looks.

Emotional Connection

To develop an emotional connection with your woman you must TALK TO HER. Talk about things you both like, talk about your past, talk about your future and also talk about how much she means to you.

You know the kind of thing.

Saying "I love you" is also very powerful. IF you love your woman, tell her.

Incredible Sex

This one is huge.

You must give your woman incredible sex if you want to have a successful, fulfilling and very sexual relationship.

The question is:

"What exactly is incredible sex?"

The answer is:

Incredible sex is when you give your woman vaginal orgasms during intercourse.

By the way -- to discover how to give your woman vaginal orgasms, click HERE.

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I just wanted to apologize to all of you for not having been in touch for a while. I know several of you have written me asking for advice, and I haven't replied to you all yet. I've been struggling to manage my time so that I respond to your questions. I know the world must feel as if it's collapsing over you, and it breaks my heart that I haven't responded (my chest feels constricted even as I write this). I'm working out a plan to stay in touch better. Jemal.

Every so often I answer questions on WikiAnswers.com. I've answered several key questions. The answers are constantly changing. You might find some valuable advice I've given there that you don't as readily find here. If you wanna check them out, just open a new window and paste in the following (super-long) link:

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Vent Here About Your Marriage Frustrations

Vent here!

As a guy, you may not have many outlets to just express your marriage frustrations or problems. I know.

Well, now you do. Just go ahead. Let it out, man!

Why would I ask you to do that? Well,

1) You may find it helpful just to let it out.

2) You're not alone. If you're going through that, you'd be surprised how many other guys are, too. And I want to see what frustrations we husbands share.

3) Finally, the more you tell me, the more I can tailor my content to best serve you. That's really all I'm here for.

So go ahead, and write away.

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Sex Secrets - Here's The Truth About Married Women Who Cheat - Important Reading For Every Man

In this article i'm going to share some sex secrets with you. These secrets are going to be about married women who cheat.

If you're a man and you are married or in a relationship, it's very important that you read this if you want to keep your relationship strong, happy and healthy.

Heck, even if you're a single guy, it's still important that you read this so that when you do enter into a long-term relationship with a woman (and potentially get married to her) you know how to make it work. And when I say 'make it work', I mean -- make sure she doesn't CHEAT.

You may be wondering why I'm qualified to talk with authority about married women who cheat.

And I understand why you might be wondering that.

The reason why I can talk about this subject with authority is because I teach men how to sexually satisfy their women and many of my clients have been in a situation where there woman was cheating or they thought she was.

What i teach my clients is that the biggest reason why married women cheat is to get better sex.

Unfortunately, most men are not giving their women good sex. And when I say 'most men', I mean over 90%. "YES", really -- most men truly suck in bed.

Some don't realize how lame they are and others know it, but don't have the balls to truly accept it and then do something about it.

Such men will have unhappy relationships and their women will very often cheat.

By the way, I can say with a fair amount of certainty that the percentage of married women who cheat is way over 70%. That's a lot of women.

You see, many men have this faulty belief that it's we men that prefer sex -- that we're more sexual than women. But the truth is that women are wildly sexual, much more so than men.

When you consider the fact that women can have dozens of ORGASMS in a single hour, this fact becomes obvious -- it's not even worth debating.

and women only like great sex. Not just good sex, they want great sex.

And they deserve it too.

So when hubby doesn't provide it, many women look elsewhere and 'do the dirty'.

My question to you is:

"Are you giving your woman great sex?"

You had better be, otherwise she might CHEAT.

By the way, here are some SEX TIPS for giving your woman GREAT SEX:

- Take control in the bedroom (believe me -- she wants you too)

- Talk dirty (she needs this to really 'get off')

- Be creative (don't do the same couple of things repeatedly)

- Give her VAGINAL ORGASMS (if you don't, you aren't giving her very good sex)

By the way -- to discover exactly how to give your woman Vaginal Orgasms (and prevent her from cheating on you), click HERE.

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Sex Techniques - Here Are 5 Ways To Give Your Woman Powerful Orgasms And Incredible Sexual Pleasure

In this article you are going to discover not just 1, but 5 SEX TECHNIQUES that you can use to give your woman POWERFUL ORGASMS and incredible sexual pleasure.

HINT: Most men are lucky if they know 1 sex technique that actually works, so the information in this article really will give you an advantage over all the other guys when it comes to pleasing women in the bedroom.

Let's get straight into the sex techniques:

Technique #1: Clitoral Orgasm

This first technique involves using your fingers to give your woman a CLITORAL ORGASM.

You are best using your middle or index finger and you must find a pressure, speed and motion that she likes. Regarding pressure and speed -- always start out gently and slowly and gradually increase both of these things.

Regarding motion -- you can rub her clitoris from side-to-side, up-and-down or in a circular motion.

Technique #2: Oral Sex

You'll use oral sex to give your woman a clitoral orgasm using your mouth.

A great way to do this is to start off by paying her LABIA some attention. Gently lick them, suck them and if you are very careful -- you can gently bite them too.

Then introduce your tongue to her vagina (the hole itself).

Finally, lick her clitoris. This is what will really 'get her off'.

As with the fingering technique -- pressure, speed and motion are the most important things you need to focus on when giving your woman oral sex.

Technique #3: The G-Spot Vaginal Orgasm

The G-Spot is a slightly raised, spongy patch of tissue inside your woman's vagina. You'll find it on the front wall, approximately 1 to 2 inches in.

The g-spot responds best to very firm pressure from your middle or middle and index fingers. Use a 'come hither' motion and you'll be giving her a powerful vaginal orgasm very quickly.

NOTE: Less than 20% of women have ever had the pleasure of a vaginal orgasm, but the great thing is -- they are way more satisfying for your woman than clitoral orgasms. So when you give her them, she'll be addicted to you.

Technique #4: The Deep Spot Method

You do this the same way as the G-Spot method, but instead of having your finger 1 to 2 inches inside her -- you put it in as far as you can.

This technique is actually even better than it's g-spot cousin.

Technique #5: Dirty Talk

You may be surprised to find dirty talk listed as a technique.

But it's here for good reason...

You should use dirty talk in conjunction with all the other sex techniques you use on your woman because it'll increase their effectiveness and your woman's sexual responsiveness to you.

Even ORAL SEX can benefit from a little dirty talk -- sure, you'll only be able to GRUNT... but this'll turn your woman on.

By the way -- to find out more about all of these SEX TECHNIQUES and more highly effective ways to give your woman incredible pleasure,
click HERE.

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Sex Tips - 3 Variations Of The Missionary Position That Are Guaranteed To Get You And Your Woman Off

In this article you are going to discover some SEX TIPS that you can take away and use to start having MUCH BETTER SEX tonight.

The missionary position is the most basic of all sex positions. To perform this sex position, your woman lays on her back with her legs open. You then lie between her legs, penetrate her and have intercourse.

Very simple.

And the truth is that it is perfectly possible to give your woman GREAT SEX in this position. BUT -- the problem is... if you use this position over and over again, things can end up getting boring.

And no woman wants boring sex.

In fact -- boring sex is the number one reason why women cheat on their men. So don't give your woman boring sex.

With that thought in mind, here are:

3 Variations Of The Missionary Position That Are Guaranteed To Get You And Your Woman Off

1. Take Your Legs Outside Of Hers

In this variation you start off in the regular missionary position and then carefully take your legs outside of your woman's. This provides a very different sensation than the regular position does.

2. Lift Her Legs

This variation is great for making your woman's vagina feel TIGHTER and for getting really DEEP penetration. Start off in the regular position and then lift your woman's legs up and place them on your shoulders.

3. Hit Her G-Spot And Deep Spot

This third variation is awesome for hitting your woman's g-spot and deep spot. In other words -- it's great for giving her VAGINAL ORGASMS.

By the way -- you simply must give your woman vaginal orgasms if you want to give her GREAT SEX.

Anyway, here's how you do it...

Before you penetrate your woman, take a thin pillow and place it on the bed. Then have her lie back on it so that it rests under her lower back. Then penetrate her in the missionary position and have intercourse. The pillow doesn't change much, but it does angle her body better for you to hit those important spots inside her vagina.

Simple and effective.

Try them out tonight and start giving your woman much better sex.

To give your woman really INCREDIBLE SEX and totally blow her mind, try doing the following things as you are having intercourse with her in any of the positions we have talked about:

- Talk dirty

- Rub her anus

- Blindfold her

- Lightly restrain her

By the way -- to discover more top secret information that will help you to easily give your woman GREAT SEX and VAGINAL ORGASMS, click HERE.

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Sex Tips For Men - Here Are 10 Things You Need To Know About Sexually Satisfying Your Woman

Many men struggle to sexually satisfy their women. The result is a lot of unhappy relationships and a lot of women who end up cheating because they aren't getting the type of sex they want.

If you want to give your woman great sex (and prevent her from cheating on you), read on now...

10 Very Important Things You Must Know About Sexually Satisfying Your Woman

1. Sex Is More Important For Women Than We Think

Many guys think that they must try and persuade their women to have sex.

Other guys think they need to buy their women gifts in exchange for sex.

BUT -- the truth is that women like sex just as much as men do and they want to have it. But only when it is GOOD. So if you want to have a lot of sex with your woman, you have to 'do her' right.

2. Good Sex Takes Care Of 90% Of The Relationship

Good sex takes care of 90% of your relationship. In other words, when the sex is good -- everything else seems to work well too.

Sex really is that important.

3. Variety Is Key

A man who does the same few things over and over again in the bedroom is only going to end up being one thing in his woman's eyes -- a BORING LOVER.

So use variety to your advantage.

Try lots of new things.

4. You Must Be A REAL MAN

Women love men who take control in the bedroom.

Women love to be dominated.

very few men have the balls to act like this, but if you want to truly sexually satisfy your woman -- you must.

5. Give Her The Type Of Sex She Really Wants

She wants it to be naughty.

She wants it to be dirty.

So give her what she wants.

6. Use Your Voice

To sexually satisfy your woman in a way that'll make her scream your name, you must talk dirty. There is no other way.

7. Orgasms Are King

Remember -- if you aren't giving her orgasms, she isn't enjoying the sex. Period.

8. Multiple Orgasms Are Essential

A single orgasm is better than none, but since women are capable of experiencing countless orgasms per hour, it'd be foolish to stop at one.

9. How To Make Sure She Never Cheats

Give her great sex (including lots of orgasms).

Treat her well outside the bedroom.

That's it -- that's all you need to do.

10. Vaginal Orgasms Are The Best Thing Ever

Okay, here's the killer tip. The one you really need to take note of and act upon:

Give your woman vaginal orgasms and the following things are very likely to be true:

- She'll never cheat on you

- She'll want to have sex with you every day

- She'll love PLEASING YOU

- Squirting and anal orgasms will become her reality too

By they way -- to discover exactly how to give your woman vaginal orgasms,
click HERE

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