There certainly is a certain mindset that a man needs to have if he is going to be successful at having one night stands. If you are like most guys and you are preoccupied with all of the little details and you have a hard time staying in the moment when you are around a woman that you really desire, then you are probably going to have a hard time if you want to participate in your own one night stand. You need to cultivate the right mindset to do well because if you neglect this aspect of things, you are going to regret it later on.
Let's Get Started -
The first thing that I think you have to do is something that is very counter intuitive and you have to act as if having sex with a woman is the last thing on your mind - at least, at first you have to appear this way. This all goes back to the fact that women are invariably turned off by men that act as if the only thing on their mind is to get laid. Well, at least the majority of women are. So, that is one thing that you need to do right from the very beginning. At some point, of course you are going to have to make it clear that you are up for a little romp in the bedroom, but not in the very beginning.
Make Her Feel Like You Are One in a Million -
Most women are naturally going to be resistant to the idea of hooking up with a guy for a one night stand. So, they are going to have their defenses up and that is okay. You can deal with that and still end up with a fun evening IF you are able to make her feel like you are a one in a million kind of guy. What I mean by that is - most women won't regret a one night stand if they feel like they have just met a great guy who is not likely to cross their path just any day of the week. So, you need to have the mindset that you really ARE a one in a million kind of guy. Feel that way and you will begin to project that air about you and she will begin to think of you that way.
Make Her Feel Desire -
Obviously, hooking up with a woman for a one night fling requires that she is sexually attracted to you. More to the point, she needs to feel intense DESIRE to be with you. This is not an easy thing to make a woman feel, but when you know what you are doing and you can make her feel that way, it becomes a lot more probable that she will end up with you. The thing is, desire has to be created slowly at first and then escalated as you go along. At least, in my experience that is what will give you the highest success rate when it comes to getting her into bed with you. You have to have the slow and steady mindset if you want to win the race and make her feel like she desires to be with you.
It's not that hard to learn how to have a one night stand when you know exactly what to do to make a woman feel desire to be with YOU.
Go to: How to Seduce Women to learn EXACTLY what you need to do.
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