Reasons to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle or Not

There are many reasons to enter the swinging lifestyle. Here you will read about some of the benefits of swinging, and some of the reasons not to swing. There are some wonderful benefits to swinging. It's not just the amazing experiences you get to share with your partner. You get a better understanding between each other and a more solid trust develops that cannot be built up in any other way.

It can make you more confident in talking with others. Not just in the lifestyle but in any area of life where you interact with anyone else. Having the ability to approach others and talk with them in a relaxed social manner is another skill that is enhanced through swinging.

Many people have commented that their sex life with each other has turned out much better as a result of becoming swingers. I think it can be put down to the fact that swingers are usually not seeking better sex, but different sex out of swinging. Life is about having a variety of wonderful experiences and swinging can provide that.

Swinging can strengthen the intimacy in your relationship. It also gives your relationship a new source of fun and excitement that you can look forward to once a month or however often you go out swinging.

There are so of the many reasons that you may want to swing, but there are also several reasons for you to not try swinging. Here are some words about that.

If you think it will help to fix your relationship you are horribly mistaken. You should have a rock solid relationship in the first place before you start. It will not repair a relationship - it will enhance your relationship.

If you are only doing it to please your partner because they want to do it then maybe it is not for you as a couple, and you need to sort out a few things between you both first.

If you are bored with your current sex life or relationship, you should look at other self-help or relationship enhancing avenues first. Fix up the sex between you both first and then you will be better prepared to enter the lifestyle. On a similar note, if you expect that your partner will become more sexually open to learning new things from swinging then it might not be the best thing for you both. Again you should be looking at other self-help resources to broaden your partner's horizons.

If you have fears that your partner may be cheating and you feel that swinging is a way to give them an avenue to have sex with others but with your permission, then maybe swinging is not for you just yet.

Again, fix your relationship first. You need to look at why you are having those fears in the first place. How solid is your relationship?

If you want to cheat and feel that this is almost like cheating but with permission, then swinging is not for you. Swinging should be a couple's activity that you do as a couple with a mutual understanding between you both. If you are doing it to cheat then you are being selfish and only looking out for your own interests.

So there are both sides to the decision on whether to enter the swinging lifestyle or not. The above information will help you to decide what is best for you.

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The Chastity Lifestyle - Avoiding Temptation

Male chastity is a surprisingly popular choice for many men and women even in committed relationships.

This is not to be confused with celibacy which is a complete absence of sexual contact, and in my opinion generally indicates a big problem in the relationship (although I recognise there are exceptions, rare as they may be).

But the obvious question has to be, how do men and women avoid temptation?

How does man avoid the temptation to "cheat" and have an orgasm when he's not supposed to (no device can prevent this with 100% effectiveness); and how do we women, in the heat of the moment stop ourselves from giving in and letting him have the orgasm he wants?

Alas, there is no easy answer to this, and in my experience and the experience of the men and women I've helped in their pursuit of chastity, it's really a matter of practice.

We become good at anything by trying it, making mistakes, and then improving. In other words, we become good at things by being bad at things and working to get better.

That said, here are three simple tips I've found useful in avoiding the temptations inherent in chastity:

Remember he wants to orgasm... but he craves denial. Understanding this takes time and effort (and ultimately it might simply mean accepting it regardless of whether you understand it or not). Fact is, no matter how much he says he wants to orgasm, if you give in to temptation and don't enforce chastity, then I promise, he really won't thank you for it. Once the heat of the moment has gone, he'll be telling you he wishes you'd been stricter.
Bear in mind this is for both of you. It seems like a lot of hard work keeping your man in chastity. And it is. So you're entitled to some payback in the form of his pleasing you without necessarily having tease and denial in return. That's what he wants, but he can't have his cake and eat it. He can't give you control on the one hand, and tell you how you should be doing it on the other.
Understand it's just a game. Many men and women take the chastity game -- and themselves -- far too seriously. I've known women get angry when their men orgasm when they're not supposed to. That's just silly. It's meant to be a bit of fun. It's certainly not worth falling out about. So relax and enjoy it.

There's more to it than this, of course and if you want to learn more about it, I suggest you put in the time to find some good, solid resources on the topic.

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