Pleasuring Her - 4 Sexy Ways To Get In The Mood

Do you want to have a good time in bed? Do you want your partner to need you so much that she becomes the one who is initiating sex most of the time?

How to have great sex? To certain people, great sex is about rehearsing some sex positions that they read from a self-help book. But it is more than that. You have to arouse your partner and yourself every time when you jump into the bed. You have to be comfortable with what you are doing, your partner has to be aroused by you and you also need to be turned on by your partner. In other words, great sex should be mutually satisfying.

Here are a few things you can do that can help her to reach orgasm easily and make your ego feel a lot better.

(1) Sensual touch

Touching is very important and is also one of the easiest ways to please her. Women respond very strongly to touch. Make sure you combine every of your touch with eye contact. Keeping eye contact with her will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch.

Take the time to caress her ears, nape and hair will be fantastic in heating things up. You kiss her softly on her back, chests or breasts, down to her tummy and inner thighs. You treat every area of the body as an erogenous zone, even touching and kissing those off-neglected areas such as the neck, throat, inner arms and eyelids. During touching, you pay attention to how she reacts to your various ways of stroking and adjust according to her preferences. All these moves will definitely turn her on.

(2) Setting the mood

Setting a comfortable environment is the key to preparing for sex and ensuring a satisfying experience. Ambiance is very important for the proper sexual mood. Accentuate your room by getting some candles. It will be better to use scented candles such as chamomile which can help to relax the body and make the atmosphere more conducive.

Make sure the room temperature is not as hot as a furnace or as cold as a refrigerator. Playing some instrumental music (or depending on what arouses your partner) is good for keeping her in the mood. Make the room smell sweet, relaxing and enticing.

(3) Oral stimulation

Oral sex is a great gate-way to intercourse. Lick her slowly all around. It is only when her clitoris is swollen and her breath is getting short and rapid that you start to lick on it firmly. You explore the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue and lips. As she gets more aroused, you can spend more time directly stimulating her clitoris.

Try alternating between slow and fast, up and down, side-to-side tongue flicks when you are on her clitoris. Use your hand to supplement your tongue action by caressing the her inner thighs, rubbing her breasts and squeezing her nipples. When you sense she is getting close, (judging from her physical and vocal responses) you maintain a rhythm that suits her, providing consistent pressure on her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

(4) Be creative

You can get a self-help book which tells about the various lovemaking positions. You read this together with your partner. After this both of you can discuss and decide the new positions that will be more intimate in lovemaking. Both of you can also experiment with role-playing by dressing (or even cross-dressing) and acting as someone you always desire to be. You can also use adult toys to help you last longer when you are stimulating your partner. You can consider light bondage such as blind-folding and hand-cuffing to sharpen the sexual response when one of the senses is being blocked out.

Lovemaking should always be comfortable and done in a way that satisfies both of you. Learning how to have great sex is essential to keep the relationship with your partner stronger.

Here are just 4 tips to get you started. Due to space constraint, you can read the rest of the tips from here

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Sexually Pleasing a Woman: The ABCs of Pleasuring Your Wife

Below are 6 principles for sexually pleasing a woman that are the foundations for fireworks in the bedroom with your wife.

They are principles more than they are techniques.? I have made them simple to remember by alphabetizing them.

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Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle A: Attention.
Pay attention!? Be attentive.? Be present.? Don't check out.? Observe.? Study her hands.? Notice her breathing.? Admire the two dimples in her lower back.? Take note of when her breathing gets harder, when her body stiffens, when she's wet, when she's not, how she arches her back, how she sways her body.? Take note of how she touches you, when she squeezes you, when her pupils dilate, the wimpers she makes.? You get the idea.

Attention is the most important of all the tips for pleasing a woman.? If you don't do this one, then the others won't do you nearly as much good.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle B: Buildup.
It's usually more pleasurable for a woman if you build the anticipation before sex.Tease her.? Talk to her.? Drop hints.? And so on.In Islamic tradition we would say, "Send ahead a messenger."? What messenger?? Sexy talk.? Kissing and foreplay.Anticipation is like a drug for a woman.? How would you like to get her "addicted" to you?

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle C: Continuity.
When being intimate with your wife, touch her continuously.? Keep some part of your body in contact with some part of hers.If you need to lift a hand, keep the other on her body.? If you need to remove both hands, keep your thigh pressed against her.? And so on.

When you stop touching her altogether, totally breaking contact, even momentarily, it snaps the intimacy that you've established. If there's a particular reason you want to snap the intimacy and create that distance (such as to create heightened anticipation),then so be it, but as a general rule, keep the touch uninterrupted.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle D: Decrease.
I love this principle.? It's so counter-intuitive, but it's magic.? One ladies' man I know--David--calls it: "2 steps forward, 1 step back."? And he's exactly right.Many guys just race for the "finish line."? But not you: you're gonna make your way forward, and then...take a step back.? As you heighten her arousal, stop escalating, and instead decrease it.

Then escalate again after a bit.? Two steps forward, one step back.Why?? Because it skyrockets her anticipation, her attraction, her desire, her longing.It may seem mean at first glance, but any woman and any guy who understands women knows the power of this.? She will be frustrated in the moment, but she will love you for it after.You'll simply drive her crazy.? A good crazy.

An added bonus with this tip is that it gives you a lot of control over the relationship in the bedroom.? That's a good thing.? Not for the sake of your ego, but for your wife's sake.? Women love to be with a man in control.As I said, you'll simply drive her crazy.? And she will love it.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle E: Extension.
This one is so cool.? All it involves is extending her skin.? Apparently, it does something to the nerve endings to heighten the pleasure.? I don't remember exactly how it works, but what matters is that it works.

When you're touching your wife, stretch the part of her body that you're touching.? For example, try kissing her under her jaw at the top of her neck, but as you do it, pull the skin of her jaw with your thumb.? Or tug a handful of her hair when you kiss the front of her neck so you tilt her head back and stretch her neck.

You can do this on various parts of her body.? For example, if you kiss her under her breast, push her breast up with your hand to extend the part of her skin that your lips are touching.

Sexually Pleasing a Woman Principle F: Focalizing.
What I mean by this is working from the out in, from the extremities to the centre.Don't go straight for her torso.? Don't go straight for her breasts or her genitals.? Work your way in.? Build the anticipation.? Give her a chance to ache for you.

Even if you're focusing on her breasts, don't go straight for her nipples.? Focus on her outer breast, the top, the bottom, the sides.? Until she can't stand it any longer.? Then work your way to her nipples.? Focus on her hands, starting with her fingertips.? Work your way up her arm.? Move to her shoulder.? Her neck.? Her collarbone (that's a great spot).? Then to the more central parts of her body. These are just six simple principles--the ABCs--but they are magic.? Apply them and you'll see wonders.

Each of the ABCs of sexually pleasing a woman returns to at least one of The 7 Secrets of Magnetism , which apply outside the bedroom and in.

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