Orgasm denial in marriage is becoming increasingly popular, odd as this may seem on the surface. In fact, more people are looking to this as an option for growing closer and working on their relationship than ever before, aided to a large extent by the amount of information easily available on the Internet.
And, indeed, male orgasm denial is an offbeat, but reliable, way to grow closer together.
But, a warning: you have to really be committed to make male orgasm denial work. It isn't as easy as putting on a male chastity device and then not having sex.
Moreover, it most certainly is NOT a power play competition between you and your wife. Male orgasm denial is a decision you must both talk about, decide the Pro's and Con's and then weigh your options.
Orgasm Denial: How to Begin
One way to begin male orgasm denial in your marriage is to research it as much as possible. You must be willing to read other stories and hear tales about the benefits and difficulties of this.
Of course, it won't always be easy to decide which tales are fact and which are fiction. I've read some stories that I know could not possibly be true; however, they are still available as soon you search for male chastity stories online.
Don't get trapped into thinking bondage and mind games are the requirements for male chastity. Although you can decide this is your preferred method, it is not what I am talking about.
Orgasm denial is not meant to be an emotional tool for your marriage
It's not a way to punish each other and make you, specifically, your wife's slave. Male chastity is actually a way for you and your wife to focus on each other.
However, the great thing about this is you will be learning all new ways to please your wife.
You will be much more focused on her emotionally, spending more time talking and doing things together. You will also be completely focused on her sexually, wanting to please her. You want her to be completely satisfied in your marriage and that is why you are denying yourself the pleasure/
Many men who practice orgasm denial say that their partner is much happier now. The focus has shifted from you to your beloved and that has a serious, and beautiful, impact on your vows.
You focus more on the intellectual side of your marriage, you spend more time cuddling and caring with the emotional aspect of your lives together, and you are pleasuring your partner better because you want to see your partner pleased.
You may even get to the point where both of you decide you will never get to orgasm again. This is not inevitable, but is more likely than you might think (or dare to hope...).
Summary
It might take a little time to get used to the idea of male orgasm denial. You could be thinking to yourself that you really don't want to go long without being able to cum.
I understand that, too, but the rewards are spectacular! Another problem is that your partner might not want you to practice this at first.
She may be thinking your lack of orgasm is going to be a reflection on her as a woman. It's a common misconceptions women have, and it's important that you show her she couldn't be more wrong. Show her by pleasing her and being the husband he needs you to be.
After all, isn't that why you're doing this?
If so, then it's wise to dig a little deeper, don't you think?
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