Solving Men's Marriage Problems

Marriage Problems vary. But their causes tend to have similar patterns. And their solutions tend to have similar patterns.

Understand the principles at work behind the problems and their solutions, and you'll quickly find yourself a happy husband, in a happy marriage, with a happy wife eager to please you.

Let's get straight into them:

Step 1: Take Charge Of Your Relationship.

What does that mean? It means that solving your marriage problems is in your hands. No one else?s. Not your wife's. Not a friend's. Not a counselor's.

Her end of the relationship is merely a reaction to you. If you end up always reacting to her, then you'll end up with a cycle of marriage problems that you can't seem to break out of.

So, instead of leaving your relationship to itself, or leaving it to your wife, take charge of it!

If your problems are about how she is treating you, recognize that she is merely reacting to how you are. If you are different, her response will be different.

Let me repeat that for you, because everything builds on that point: If you are different, her response will be different.

So don?t blame her. You may think she?s being unfair. ?How could she be that way?!? Well?because she?s responding to how you are with her right now.

So start acting as if your relationship is 100% in your hands.

Step 2: Appreciate That Marriage Problems Are Typically Emotional.

Now that you?re ready to take charge of your relationship and take responsibility for it, you need to recognize why you have marriage problems.

Up to this point, you?ve failed to spark the right emotions in her. That?s the only reason you?ve lost her.

Your problems are due to emotional reasons.

Not logical reasons.

Not moral reasons.

They may be clothed in logical or moral reasons, but those aren?t the real reasons.

Those are merely her rationalizing her emotions. Understand that.

If you spark in her the right emotions, you will find her rationalizing illogical and even immoral behaviour. To justify following her emotions. Simple.

Warning: Once you understand how to spark her emotions, you will find you have a lot of influence over her. So use it with care! As they say, with great power, comes great responsibility.

When sparking her emotions, you need to be a man about it, and take care of your woman. Use your influence over her with care, and she will love you and thank you forever.

What does that mean on a practical level?

It means a few things:

Just as your marriage problems are because you pressed the wrong emotional buttons, the solution is to press the right emotional buttons. It?s that simple. That?s the good news.

It also means that you need to stop trying to convince her with rational and moral arguments.

?Convince? her with emotional arguments.

What do I mean by ?convince? her with emotional arguments? I mean influence her by affecting her emotions, by inspiring in her emotions of attraction, rather than emotions of repulsion.

Because that?s all that has happened: she has responded with repulsion to how you are?but she can just as easily respond to how you are with attraction.

Which brings me to the next step?

Step 3:Press The Right Emotional Buttons To Create Attraction.

It's simple: if you make your wife more attracted to you, you will find that most of your marriage problems will take care of themselves.

Some Common Marriage Problems:

"My wife doesn't listen to me."
"My marriage feels flat."
"My wife doesn?t respect me."
"My wife complains about me."
"My wife is always whiny and naggy."
"My wife looks at me more as a roommate than as her man."
"My wife isn't interested in sex."

And so on.

The Real Problem:

You're missing one or more of the foundations of attraction.

If you make her attracted to you, you will find her far more attentive, exciting, playful, radiant, respectful, cheerful (giggly, in fact), seductive, and eager to please you.

So make sure you maintain the foundations of attraction at all times.

If you're yet to learn the foundations of magnetic attraction, then keep reading the articles on this site.

Feel free to check out these related articles:

Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs To Look For In Your Marriage

3 Reasons Why Marriages Fail For Men

Peace,

Jemal.

P.S. If you want your specific questions answered, just scroll down and ask whatever question you have in the form at the bottom of this page.

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Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs To Look For In Your Marriage

If it's been bothering you and you're wondering about unfaithful cheating wife signs, first let me ask you the following questions:

Has your wife ever seemed bored with you? Have you ever felt your wife disrespects you? Has your wife ever complained that you?re emotionally unavailable or distant?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, your wife may be feeling the typical emotions of women who cheat.

Before you continue reading, ask yourself, ?Why am I here??

If the answer is, I need to to know all the possible unfaithful cheating wife signs, so I can catch my cheating wife, then I have to remind you that this site is about how to achieve a happy marriage. But the goal of ?busting your wife? is a recipe for continued misery.

Catching her and proving how bad she is, and what a victim you are doesn?t solve the problem.

No, man! Only if you determine the real problem and do something about it can you solve the problem and have a happy marriage.

You haven?t solved the problem yet because you haven't yet figured out the real problem. And you need to focus on the real problem.

But What If You Knew The REAL Problem?

Would you rather spend your life focused on studying unfaithful cheating wife signs and maybe even catch your wife cheating...or would you rather get to the point where you never again worry about her cheating, because she adores you so much that her cheating is just an impossibility?

Consider changing the way you look at the whole issue of unfaithful cheating wife signs. Instead of trying to discover the signs that a woman is cheating, I will show you the signs of men that women cheat on.

What you really need to know are the unfaithful cheating wife signs present in you, not her.

What does that mean? That means that there are certain kinds of men that wives tend to cheat on. Wouldn't you wanna know the types of husbands that wives cheat on, just in case you are one?

The 3 Kinds of Husbands That Women Cheat On:

Husband-Type #1: The Bore.

This is a man who has little appeal. He lacks passion in his own life, and he doesn?t bring passion to his life or to his wife?s. And he doesn?t make his wife feel good about herself.

He may find his wife indicating that an office colleague of hers ?makes me feel better about myself.? Or he may find her showing little emotion and having little expression on her face.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more appeal, by incorporating more pleasure and passion in your life and in your wife?s.

In your own life, get more involved in activities you love, for example a hobby or sport.

In your marriage, you could start by romancing your wife more.

So that's sign #1 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a bore.

Husband-Type #2: The Chump.

This is a man who lacks dominance. He doesn?t have a lot of control over his life and is not ?alpha.? He?s not a leader. He?s not strong.

He may find his wife disrespecting him, despising him, or walking all over him, rolling her eyes when he speaks, calling him a ?loser,? and so on. At the same time, she may esteem or respect some other man or men.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more dominance. Start by ensuring your life is filled with purpose. Learn your life purpose as a man, learn how to set and achieve goals.

Take control of your life and of your interaction with your wife.

Lead! Lead! Lead! Don?t be a follower, especially a follower of your wife. You will have to step on some toes sometimes, including your wife?s. But to establish the dominance in your life that your wife needs to respect you, you?re gonna have to do it. So be courageous and get used to stepping up as a man.

So that's sign #2 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a chump.

Husband-Type #3: The Jerk.

This is a man who hasn?t maintained intimacy. He doesn?t give his wife enough attention, and he hasn?t built a strong connection with her. He may be distant and disinterested, or may be outright cruel.

He may find his wife feeling lonely. She may express her loneliness to him by complaining that he?s ?emotionally unavailable.? He may find his wife desperately trying to connect with him or get noticed by him, even if it?s by lashing out at him or acting outrageous.

If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, you need to build more intimacy with your wife. You can do this by showing her she?s loved.

If she needs to be touched, touch her.

If she needs a thoughtful gift, get her one.

(No, not a drill, dude! Here?s a pretty easy one: if she likes flowers?and what girl doesn?t?get her flowers! But put some thought into it: learn what flowers she likes, what colours she likes. Give it some attention. Get the florist?s help if you have to. But put care and attention into it. And please don?t tell me you feel gay picking out flowers. You?re masculine enough that you can get away with it.)

If she needs compliments, give them to her. And again, give it some attention. Look her deep in the eyes (don?t break eye contact) and tell her something you actually appreciate about her.

If she needs something done for her, do it without her telling you to. Clear the snow off her car when she?s not expecting it. She?ll feel loved and cared for.

If she needs your time, make time for her.

Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so pay attention to your wife?s particular.

And that?s the secret: pay attention, man!

Finally, please don?t do any of the below intimacy-smashers. (If they're present in your marriage, then consider them strong unfaithful cheating wife signs--if not now, then in the future.)

1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by saying stuff like, ?Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!?

2) Get all defensive when she says stuff you disagree with. Just stay present with her and try to appreciate where she?s coming from.

3) Be snide or insulting with her, by rolling your eyes when she?s arguing with you, taking ?low blows? at her, and stuff like that.

4) Shut her out, especially when emotions are getting really heated. There?s probably nothing that distances her from you more than this. When you think to yourself, ?I?m not dealing with this crap!? and you want to walk away from her or just ignore her, try to stay present with, even if you find it damn tough.

Otherwise, you?ll find your wife feeling alienated from you, and you might end up finding her finding that companionship with some other guy?I hate saying that?when she really wanted it with you.

Okay, so you came here looking for the signs of an unfaithful, cheating wife in her. But now you can recognize the signs in yourself that may lead you to have an unfaithful, cheating wife.

If any of those signs are present in you, then get rid of them. Re-read this article, because there?s a lot in it.

Read other articles on this site, cuz in other articles I reinforce the concepts I explained here and I sometimes go into more detail.

The idea of a wife cheating on her husband repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It?s something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But I?m not here to lecture the women.

If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I?m speaking to you, a fellow husband. And you only have control over your own self. So take charge of your own life. Your wife will naturally follow?or you might decide she?s not the right woman for you.

Regardless, if you apply the advice I?ve given you here, you?ll naturally find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to bust your wife cheating, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.

Make sure to read this article, too, if you haven?t already:

"3 Steps To Solving All The Marriage Problems A Husband Will Ever Face"

Peace,

Jemal.

P.S. To better understand what to do about being a Bore, Chump, or Jerk, make sure you get my free Magnetism Method course: "How to Have Your Wife Adore You and Do Anything for You."

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Vent Here About Your Marriage Frustrations

Vent here!

As a guy, you may not have many outlets to just express your marriage frustrations or problems. I know.

Well, now you do. Just go ahead. Let it out, man!

Why would I ask you to do that? Well,

1) You may find it helpful just to let it out.

2) You're not alone. If you're going through that, you'd be surprised how many other guys are, too. And I want to see what frustrations we husbands share.

3) Finally, the more you tell me, the more I can tailor my content to best serve you. That's really all I'm here for.

So go ahead, and write away.

Just click on the following link and type until you're sick of typing... Vent@JustHusbands.com

Alternatively, you can fill out an anonymous form here: Marriage Questions

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Happy Marriage for Men

Are you a man that wants a happy marriage? Well, you've come to the right place. My name's Jemal Jelil, and welcome to JustHusbands.com, aka Happy-Marriage-For-Men.com, dedicated to just husbands, where you?ll find valuable secrets on how to have a great marriage.

Note: I make reference to "Magnetism" a lot on this site. If you aren't familiar with the details of my story, how it relates to magnetism, and how magnetism can work for you, make sure you check out my other site, "Wife Magnet," too:

.................................www.WifeMagnet.com...............................

Anyway, before you do anything else, I've got something special I wanna hook you up with first...My FREE "Magnetism Method" course that reveals the #1 secret to a happy marriage.

If you'd like your wife to adore you and do anything for you, then you'll want to get your hands on this free Magnetism Method course.

Just fill in your first name and email address below and click on the button, and I'll immediately send you the #1 secret to a happy marriage.

If you want to know more about my free newsletter, go to the sidebar marked FREE Course and check it out.

Now, if you?re a man that would like to have an amazing marriage and is eager to learn the secrets of achieving one, then you'll want to read on.

Let me tell you a story?For a long time, I had been intrigued by what makes for a happy marriage, what makes a marriage work.? (I can?t remember if the intrigue started before I got married 12 years ago or after I got married.)So many years back I started studying relationship and marriage material, especially books. I went through virtually every book available on relationships.

But I found some issues with the advice available:

1)?A lot of the stuff out there didn?t distinguish between happy relationships in general and happy marriage in particular.? The problem is that marriages can be so different from other relationships.

2)?Even worse, a lot of the stuff out there didn?t distinguish between men and women.? Did you get that?!? They were giving the same advice to men as they were to women.? Come on, man!? Follow their advice and you?ll end up with two women in the house.?? You aren?t interested in that and neither is your wife.? Know what I?m saying?

3)?Finally, and this is kinda related to the previous point: too much chick-talk!? I?m sorry, man.? I recognize that communication is important, but is the answer to everything ?you have to talk about it and express your emotions??? Be vulnerable together, maybe even cry together because you?re feeling frustrated that your boss was mean to you.? Come on!You?d think from some of the stuff out there that you have to be girly to have a happy marriage.? Is that true?? ?The answer is?(drumroll, please)?NO!You can be manly and still have a happy marriage.? In fact, your wife wants you to be manly.? (Of course, you?ll find out in my articles that that doesn?t mean being a heartless jerk.? But rather having a tender strength that will make her melt.? But your wife still wants you to be strong.)

As for the stuff available specifically for men, I found it?s usually about picking up women or about dating.? But you?ve already got the woman, and she agreed to marry you.? Now what?!But imagine if you could find material geared to just husbands, giving you all the tools you need to have a happy marriage?without talking to you as if you?re a bachelor, and without talking to you as if you?re a woman.

That?s where I come in. I?ve spent years studying relationships, studying marriage, studying attraction.? I?ve studied these things in my own life and I?ve studied them in the lives of others.I?ve seen what doesn?t work.? And I?ve studied what does work.? More than that, I?ve lived it and applied it.

And?there came a point where it all clicked.? I ?cracked the code.?And because I?m as analytical as I am, I codified what I learned, and I teach it to others.People have been begging me for a long time now to start making my teachings widely available to husbands.? And so?JustHusbands.com was born!

Check it out:

What You'll Find Here:

-How to prepare for marriage.? Don?t get married before you?re ready, or you?ll have a heck-of-a hard time repairing the damage you do in the beginning stages?trust me, I?ve been there.

-How to assess compatibility, to see if you and your wife?or potential wife?are a naturally good match; and if not, what you can do about it.

-Secrets that few men know about achieving a happy marriage.-Tips to help you be more romantic (without being girly about it).? She?ll adore you for it.

-Some marriage and relationship poetry to help you keep her dazzled, attracted, and thinking about you non-stop.

-Love-making advice that will keep her coming back for more (personally, I?m kinda shy talking about this stuff, but it?s super-valuable if you want a marriage that just plain rocks).

-All about female orgasms.? It?s simple: if you?re giving her good orgasms, she?s happy.? If she?s happy, she?ll make you happy.? It'll be a happy marriage all around!

-Common problems.? How to identify, prevent, and fix them.

How to Get the Most Out of This Site:

1)?If you don?t wanna miss out on anything, go right now to the sidebar marked FREE-Zine and sign up for my free newsletter, if you still haven't done that.? Then come back here and read the next point.? Go ahead?I?ll see you when you get back.

2)?Okay, now that you?ve done that?I?ve created this site for you, and you?re the one that can make sure it?s tailor-made to you.? Just go now to the sidebar marked Questions and tell me your biggest problem, pain, or predicament that?s standing in the way of your having a happy marriage or a happier marriage.? Then come back here and read the next point.? Go ahead?I?ll see you when you get back.

3)?Now, feel free to subscribe to my blog (you'll see it on the left) if you want the play-by-play updates to my site as they happen.

4)?Now?start surfing!? Go and read whatever articles appeal to you.? Read the ones most relevant to your situation first.? And feel free to come back here at any time.I?ve been married to my wife for well over a decade now, and we were both miserable for what seemed an eternity.But not anymore.? Now we have a very happy marriage, and I?m here to tell you how to achieve a happy marriage, too.And as a result, I am a happy man in a happy marriage.? And it just keeps getting better.And if you apply what you learn here, I expect the same for you?To your marital happiness!

Peace,

Jemal Jelil.

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Happy Marriage Resources

Welcome to my recommended marriage resources page. Before you continue...

The best resource I can possibly recommend to you is the program I just put together at:

WIFE MAGNET
"The 7 Secrets Of Being Irresistible To Your Wife"

I only take a handful of clients at a time, so make sure you check it out right away.

As for other resources, make sure you scroll down all the way, because what you're most looking for may be farther down.

If you just signed up for my free Magnetism Method course, thank you and congratulations!

Check your email for a welcome message and then Lesson #1. (Make sure to check your spam folder, because email services can be quite moody--you wouldn't want to miss out on life-changing information because you forgot to check your spam folder.)

If you haven't yet signed up for that free course , you can discover the biggest secret to a happy marriage by filling out the below:

Beyond my Magnetism Method course, of all the marriage resources I have come across, below is a list of the ones that I recommend.

I only list resources that I have myself gone through and found a lot of value in. I'm only interested in directing you to resources I personally believe in (that's also why you won't even see any adwords on this site, since I can't control what ads go up).

Because I'm so selective, this list'll probably always remain short. As I said, I won't put anything on this site that I haven't personally gone through and seen high value in.

That said, I plan to revise it and grow it over time, as I come across new resources that I think will contribute to your happy marriage.

The following is a curriculum I've compiled for your husband training, if you the want to be the husband your wife's always dreamed of:

#1: Magnetic Attraction
Discover the biggest secret to a happy marriage: "How To Have Your Wife Adore You And Do Anything For You With This Secret Magnetism Method...Even If Your Marriage Is Currently A Disaster!": The Magnetism Method

#2: Be Her Hero
Wow! I could consider this guy my "competition," but his material is just so valuable that I had to tell you about it. His book is simply one of the best resources for husbands I have come across, whether your marriage is failing, succeeding, or thriving. And, amazingly, it is totally free. Read it and become the hero husband every woman dreams of (I could go on, but just go get the book): HusbandOfSteel.com

#3: Making Love
There are many resources available that claim to teach you how to be a great lover, but this is probably the most detailed, most tasteful, most valuable one out there: TheVirtuosoLover.com

#4: Romance Ideas
If you want the most complete resource for romance ideas (it even includes advice for your wife), by a guy that has dedicated his life to romance and a man I have the utmost regard for, then check this out: ManOfRomance.com

#5: Marriage Problems
Save your marriage! If you're having problems in your marriage, or even if you just want to take your marriage to the next level--from a good marriage to a great marriage--then you should check this resource out: WifeKeep.com

Note: Unfortunately, many valuable marriage resources contain a picture here or there that may offend you and a word here or there that may offend you. Though in my own material, you won't find offensive language or pictures, I don't have control over other people's material, so please just ignore the few that you may find.

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