If you feel timid about dirty talking, you shouldn't be; It is just like sex itself - everyone knows about it, everyone is doing it, but only the two of you actually know the detailed specifics about it. Most people wish they were better in bed but the things that they want, or those that they want their partners to say or do remain in the dark because they do not talk about them. The freer you are with your partner about sex and what you expect or want, the more adventurous your sex life will be. This applies to, among other things, dirty talking.
You may think that you are a 'good girl' and do not need to talk dirty because your man loved you for what you were. My take on this is that if you or your man has preferences in bed, then the only way to make sex more fulfilling is to explore these 'preferences'. If I am not wrong, your man will totally love dirty talking as it eliminates the monotony of quiet sex and when you see him enjoying himself I am certain you too will have more fun knowing that your man is experiencing the best of what you have to offer.
I should clear one thing though, dirty talking is not all about insults, derogatory words and phrases that amount to abuses; dirty talking can be soft moaning and telling your man how good you are feeling. It can also be telling your man what to do to make you enjoy sex more or simply putting in words what is going on in your head during the lovemaking session. If you are not sure what to say during sex or you are a beginner who have tried a few phrases but need more confidence, here are a few things you can try the next time you and your man are getting it on:
- During foreplay, tell him what you are wearing or tell him you are not wearing anything underneath.
- During sex, tell him how you feel inside, and be sure to credit him for that. Love men having their egos stroked, you cannot go wrong with this just as long as you stay realistic.
- Moaning softly is one of the best forms of dirty talk. Your man loves to know that his efforts are having an effect, show this through movements and verbally.
Whatever dirty talk phrases you use, know that this is an art that you perfect over time. If it does not work out so well the first time, you will get to know what your man likes and you will adjust accordingly.
Maya is a dirty girl, and she is sharing some of the best dirty talk tips with you. There however is a lot more you need to know about talking dirty to improve your sex life and relationship. Go to http://www.learn-to-talk-dirty.com/ to find professional advice, tips and guidelines on talking dirty.
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