Most girls often desire to, but few actually go through with talking dirty to their boyfriends or husbands in bed during sex. The biggest issue that girls have in this department is finding the words to use, but I have an answer for this. Here are a few suggestions I collected from a users' forum that you may find useful in guiding you start and perfect dirty talking.
1. Ask your man to tell you what to do and how he wants you to do it but don't be too nice about it. talking dirty is all about being explicit, free and open, don't be afraid of saying 'fuck me daddy' or 'my juicy wet pussy is throbbing just for you'. You have no idea how this kind of talk will turn him on. Although it may seem weird the first couple of times, just like anything else in a relationship, this can be perfected through practice.
2. Start with the basics. Every time I have sex with my boyfriend, it feels like a whole new experience because we start with the basics each time. He may ask me what I'm wearing and I reply nothing or lingerie (even when I'm not) and I ask him what he'd do to me if he laid his hands on me. This may go on for a while, the seduction comes naturally and when he comes over, I greet him with kisses at the door. Remember, dirty talking does not start in bed, it's a process that starts even before the seduction.
3. Tell him the things that you want him to do, but make them simple and reasonable. For example, you can tell him to kiss you or squeeze you tighter but remember to maintain a tone. Men are creatures that like challenges, challenging him that he can't do something will boost his confidence and make him want to. Remember though to give credit where its due, when he does something that makes you feel good be sure to tell them that.
4. Visualize what you have on your mind when describing how you feel to him. Since sex is all about feelings, this is what you should focus on when talking dirty. However, he may not really see or feel what you feel and it is up to you to express it in action and in words. Tell him about the tingling on your back, tell him how his hard cock feels in your pussy, tell him how sensational it feels to have his tongue in your mouth - it all builds what can be called perfected dirty talking techniques during sex.
5. Have you tried being thematic when talking dirty? This is particularly great if you do role playing. For instance, you can be a lady and he a gentleman, and talking dirty will go something like 'Excuse e sir, could you be kind enough to penetrate my vagina with your enormous member?' Theme is however built from the early stages of sex and if you can maintain it through the session, the better. Most popular themes are the prostitute and the trick when you want it rough, pirates, the teacher and student, coach and cheerleader and others.
There is no syllabus to follow when talking dirty, it's just one of those personal things that two people perfect over time. When you overcome the initial difficulties, you will know just how to go about, what to say and what your man wants to hear or responds best to. I hope these 5 points help you jumpstart a naughty but pleasurable sex life and improve your relationship in general.
Maya Collins is an expert when it comes to dirty talk, relationship building and sex. She can teach you how to talk dirty with confidence and she has successfully assisted many couples enjoy sex and build their relationships. Visit http://www.learn-to-talk-dirty.com/ for more dirty talk techniques, tips and ideas.
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