What Penis Enlargements Really Do - "In Short"

If you have not heard about natural penis enlargement pills, well you must have been living under a rock, in a cave or locked up in solitary confinement somewhere for the past decade. And even then, you may have still received some solicitation regarding penis enlargement pills and other similar products.

It seems it all started a few years back, shortly after the release of that little tiny blue pill. And since then, just think, wow, what a "huge" impact (sorry, could not resist) that tiny pill has had on the industry of male enhancement.

Well, as we all know, the prescription for that blue pill took men from "zero" to "hero" with their wives and girlfriends almost instantly. Every man on the planet seemed to be totally excited (both literally and anatomically) about what this prescription medication could do for them. However, then came the reports of some side effects that were not so pleasant and even a bit scary to say the least.

Some men reported faintness and dizziness, seeing colors (especially the color blue), blood pressure issues and drug interactions (can you say scary?) These are all things that I would not want to experience all in the name of having a firmer erection. Wood...I mean would you? (There I go again!)

So then came the copycat prescriptions, but were they any safer? Yeah, good question right? These male enhancement prescription medications for men still sold like mad, but again, there were the side effects associated with them that made people a bit apprehensive. So what could be the answer to these expensive prescription medications totally made up of synthetic ingredients? How about natural penis enlargement pills?

Well the natural option seemed to take off just as well as the prescription medication option. However, some people had concerns about the natural enhancement pills as well and what they really did to/for a man. So let me help you understand it all.

Do these natural enhancement pills grow a man's penis 3 inches over night? No. Do these pill supplements land a man a role in an adult movie? Probably not. Do these supplements get men multiple women in just hours? I'm going to go ahead and answer for this one with a, "most of the time no!" So what do these supplements do then? How do they do it, and are they safe?

Well in "short" (there I go again), these natural penis enlargement pills are safe because of their natural ingredients. These supplements used age-old, all-natural ingredients (herbal extracts) to enhance circulation and blood flow throughout the body. The herbal ingredients within these pills have literally been used for hundreds of years as natural libido enhancers.

With the use of these pills a man can expect to see better circulation to the penis and of course that means a stronger, fuller erection, enhanced sensitivity and enhanced arousal; and all of this without a prescription! So to sum it all up, these all-natural penis enlargement pills lead to better erection quality and more enjoyable sex for men naturally. Yay for men!

Now, does this mean that every natural penis enhancing pill supplement that is available on the market is legit and a great product for you? No, absolutely not. However, if you can find a reputable company that has been manufacturing men's enhancement pills and products for years, is backed by doctors and has a proven track record (good reputation), then you are probably onto something; a good product.

As always please be sure to consult with your doctor before starting any new supplement; especially if you have any health conditions or are currently taking any type of prescription medications. It's just the smart thing to do.

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Male Chastity: The Myth and the Magic

Male Chastity is one of the most common yet probably the most misunderstood kinks or fetishes out there. I say "common" because every month there are (literally) hundreds of thousands of searches for this and related topics alone; and I say "misunderstood" because the results of those searches usually mean the average searcher ends up even less informed than he or she was at the beginning.

Why?

Because virtually everything you ever read about male chastity is completely wrong, misrepresented and even just plain made up by men who are living their fantasy through a computer screen.

While there are no doubt many definitions of what male chastity is supposed to be here's the one I use: where a man consensually hands over control of his orgasm to his partner.

In other words he wants his partner to be the one to decide when, how, where and even if he gets to orgasm, either when they are enjoying physical intimacy together or when he is on his own.

Orgasm denial is then 'enforced' by the man wearing a chastity device or belt and handing over the key to his partner. These devices can cost anything from $100 to $1500, and more. It's a serious business and men and women take it very seriously indeed.

And that, in a nutshell is all it is.

There are a few things it's important to understand.

First, male chastity is not the same as celibacy.

In fact there is probably nothing worse for a man who craves male chastity to be "locked and left" or ignored. The dynamics of male chastity mean practitioners usually enjoy more sexual intimacy not less. Most men want to be teased to the point of orgasm... and then denied that last, crucial step. I don't fully understand it, but I do know it's true and I know the amazing pleasure and benefits it brings (my husband, John, recently completed a full year of orgasm denial with frequent tease-and-denial sessions).

Following on from this is the common misconception male chastity is a cure-all, a panacea for broken relationships.

It's not. While it's true male chastity and orgasm denial tend to bring couples closer together, it works only when the relationship is fundamentally sound. If the thought of touching you makes your partner's skin crawl, then while locking your dick away from the world might seem like the answer to all prayers, in reality it's just a bomb waiting to go off.

The second thing to understand is male chastity is not the same as male submission (you'll even read accounts of men who are "forced" into chastity against their will; for many reasons, all of them obvious to anyone prepared to think about them, these stories are all lies).

These are common misrepresentations, and ones cheerfully perpetuated by any number of blogs, forums and other discussion groups where the main purpose seems to be to insult, degrade and humiliate men.

Nothing wrong with this if it's what the poor fellows actually want, but in my experience, very few men really do; or, at least, there is a very sizable proportion of men who crave male chastity who don't want all the D&S stuff so many people pretend has to go along with it.

Many female-led relationships do include male chastity as an element of the woman's control of her man, but the reverse is not necessarily true.

My own relationship with my husband, John, for instance, is male-led, which is how we both like it. We run our own consulting business and John is most definitely the one in the driving seat.

Moreover, he's a strong, assertive masculine sort and far removed from the submissive or "sissy" type commonly associated with male chastity. The only 'control' of him I have is I decide when and if he orgasms. It's just a game and if he didn't want to play it he's big enough and strong enough to make it stop.

And we are neither rare nor exceptional: I get hundreds of emails a week from readers who see it the same way. Sometimes this is called "vanilla chastity" and it's far more common than you might think, although it's also true my audience is somewhat self-selecting.

Male chastity is really nothing more than glorified teasing - a game played out over weeks, months and perhaps years rather than just confined to the bedroom.

It's a serious game, to be sure, but that's not to say it can't be fun as well. It's really just a matter of becoming informed.

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Washington Romantic Getaways

Reconnect with your partner, indulge your need for a bit of pampering, or simply take a break from it all at one of these incredibly romantic Washington state escapes. Get away for a week or a weekend; the hardest part may be choosing which to visit.

The Chrysalis Inn & Spa at the Pier

From its perfectly poised location on Bellingham's bay, in the historic Fairhaven district, the Chrysalis Inn sparkles like a crown jewel. Waves lap onto its rocky foreground, and pylons from a once-booming cannery now act as perches for stoic herons. Beyond is the blue ocean, where sailboats breeze by and San Juan Islands dot the horizon.

The essence of the Northwest is brought indoors through sweeping windows and reflected in the interior decor. China slate floors in the lobby lead to 43 ultra-romantic rooms and suites. All feature fine linens, down duvets, gas fireplaces, two-person tubs, ocean-view window seats, and Internet access for those mixing romance with business. Eight treatment rooms in the Chrysalis Spa offer massages, facials, and other blissful body treatments.

The Fino wine bar is the place to mingle at sunset and sample distinctive wines from around the world. While the dinner menu tempts your palette with regional culinary treasures, the view from the windowed wall will keep you focused on the Pacific Northwest. At sunrise, return here for a complimentary buffet breakfast before prying yourself away from this exquisite destination.
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Thornewood Castle Inn & Gardens

For Wayne and Deanna Robinson, their home, just south of Tacoma, is literally their castle. The unique three-story Gothic Tudor, surrounded by old-growth trees and English perennial gardens, shimmers in stately splendor from its lakeside location. The four-acre estate, and original home to Chester A. Thorne in 1908, has a history as colorful as its red-brick exterior. It has been a past favorite haunt for dignitaries and presidents, and more recently, for celebrities during the filming of Stephen King's Rose Red.

The Robinsons have lovingly restored Thornewood Castle into a gracious country inn. Guests are transported back to a romantic era of old-world charm during their stay. Gothic archways and medieval stained glass windows emit a fantastical feel while light floods through them to 27,000 square feet of living space and 54 rooms. Plush Oriental carpets adorn gleaming hardwood floors, wall sconces cast a soft light on richly paneled walls, and handsome decor flows through from the Great Hall, Ballroom, and Music room to eight opulent upper-floor guest quarters. Some boast fireplaces and antique tubs, others offer modern jetted Jacuzzis. All view the palatial gardens, and all are divinely regal.

Bountiful breakfasts are also an important part of the stay. If you visit on the first Thursday of the month, be sure to partake in afternoon high tea. This four-course extravaganza is a lovers' delight.
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Menage Begins With "Men"

It will come as no surprise to any of you who have significant experience interacting with guys, that as a rule, we think about sex frequently...incessantly...almost constantly, whether we are asleep or awake. And in order to keep things always fresh and interesting, we fuel our sexual mental meanderings with images so profoundly decadent, they could make a porn star blush. That is not to say that we would actually participate in these episodes of lurid lewdness, and raucous ribaldry (wow, sexually-related language is fun) if we had the opportunity in real life. No, in many cases our fantasies are most satisfying because they are something we can only dream about without the pressure of having to make them real. And why is this? Because the US that exists in our fantasies is an idealization of who we'd like to be...if we had limitless stamina, sensational athleticism, incredible flexibility, and an ever-erect member of mythic proportions. But as you know, sadly, most of us fall short (no pun intended) in many of these areas. So living out many of our fantasies is, therefore, an impossible dream.

That being said, there is ONE fantasy that most men believe they can actually live out - given the right set of circumstances, an open-minded, accepting partner, and substantial amounts of high-octane libations. And what is this desire that we most optimistically believe we can realize in this lifetime? I am talking about, of course, a threesome, or ménage-a-trois (everything sounds more exotic in French - even snails). And while some guys might consider a three-way with a girl and another guy to be exciting, most men desire a more "traditional" girl/boy/girl arrangement, making us the "meat" in this sexual sandwich.

But why is it that this is the go-to sexual "flight of fancy" of most red-blooded males? Frankly, I'm not sure there has been extensive research on this subject, or if scholarly works addressing this are available for perusal. What I DO know is that, for guys, having simultaneous, sexual relations with two women at once is an example of "more is more." In other words, sex with one woman is good - and with more than one woman is better. Why? Well, first, there are more of our favorite parts to play with: More lips to kiss; more breasts to caress; more vagina's to...well you get the point. Second, we kind of feel like we've won the lottery. Normally we have to move heaven and earth to get ONE woman to be intimate with us. Now we have TWO hot women (okay, in reality they may not always be hot - but in our imaginations, they're smokin') rubbing and kissing on us and using us as their sex toy. What could be better than that? And third, there is always a chance (in our naughty minds, anyway) that any time you get naked girls together in close proximity, they may start getting up-close-and-personal with each other (preferably while we're recovering from our previous carnal cavorting) and we get to have a bird's-eye view. Major voyeurs that we are, seeing two women in an amorous embrace is another big fantasy of the male persuasion. And now after getting reheated from seeing all that lady-lovin', we can join in the festivities and drown in a sea of writhing, moaning, heaving flesh. Then cap it off with a frosty brew and "Sports Center"...and you've got the perfect evening (okay, just kidding about the last part, but hey, it's OUR fantasy, right?).

Of course, for most men, this is a dream that will never be realized. And perhaps it's better that way. The reality of threesomes rarely live up to the hype. And even when they do, misunderstandings, jealousy, regret, and feelings of betrayal often come into play, putting a damper on the proceedings or the memory thereof. Nonetheless, as long as there are horny men (are there any other kind?), and women they find attractive, our noble quest for a ménage-a-trois will continue, unabated. It is our pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And though we know we will probably never find it, we will always forge ahead (mentally, at least) as if this lusty reward is just around the next corner. And if it's not, a Starbucks probably is. So if we can't live our dreams, at least we can console ourselves with a caramel macchiato and undress the comely barista with our eyes.

© 2010 David M. Matthews. All Rights Reserved.

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Relationship Advice Guru and Author of:
"Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think"
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Myths About Penis Size, Penis Enlargement and Enjoyable Sex

So, just one more article on penis enlargement and how to have better sex huh? Well no not really! In this article I want to talk about a few myths about penis enlargement and enhancing your sexual experience. People have connected the size of a man's penis to his ability to please a woman, self confidence, etc. Men and society seem to be so focused on the size of a man's penis, but how important is it really? What other factors are involved in having a good sexual relationship?

Does the size of a man's penis determine whether or not they can please their wife in the bedroom? Well, a lot of people would probably jump to the answer of, "Yes, of course it does!" However, there are many more factors involved with a man satisfying his partner other than the size of his penis.

The average sized penis is about 4 to 6 inches in length. So if you fall somewhere in this range, well, you are normal believe it or not. Anything under this length and yes, you might have a "small" problem. However, it's not just about the length of a man's penis that helps a woman to reach orgasm and be satisfied. It's also about girth, or the thickness of the penis. The girth of a man's penis is important because the most sensitive areas of a woman's vagina are located at the opening of the vagina. In other words, simply having a long and skinny penis might not get the job done. So in "short" (Ha!), a thick penis can be very beneficial in pleasuring your partner and hitting on all of the sensitive areas of the vagina.

Now, what else is involved in order to help a woman reach orgasm? Well, as some of you may know, and like I've been saying, it's not just about penile size. For women, it's also about an emotional and mental connection. So if a man can "connect" with his partner on an emotional and mental level, he is halfway there! Also, lots of foreplay doesn't hurt! Duh!

Now back to penis enlargement and penis size. Penis size can of course make for a better and more pleasurable sexual experience for both you and your partner. Natural penis enlargement pills are a great tool for men to reach their maximum potential safely and naturally. Penis enlargement pills, if bought from a reputable company, can work wonders for men. They can enhance sensation, arousal, and sensitivity and give men firmer and fuller erections. And a firmer and fuller erection means a thicker penis; and what does a thicker penis do? Well, as I said earlier, a thicker penis means that the nerves at the opening of a woman's vagina receive more "attention" so to speak.

To recap, a plan I suggest is to first, find a good penis enlargement supplement (for you men of course!) This will bring you to your full potential and enhance all aspects of your sexual experience. Two, take into consideration that having a good connection both mentally and emotionally with your partner will drastically increase attraction and help out with improving the intensity in the bedroom. Three, add in lots of foreplay and four, enjoy!

Now, if you have any medical problems at all, or if you are currently taking any type of prescription medications, please be sure to consult with your physician before starting to take any natural penis enlargement pills or other natural supplements. Always do your research and know what you are putting into your body! Be healthy and good luck!

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Multiple Orgasms - How To Give Your Woman Incredible Sexual Pleasure Over And Over Again

In this article you are going to discover how to give your woman INCREDIBLE sexual PLEASURE, not just once -- but over and over again. The way you do this is of course, by giving her MULTIPLE ORGASMS.

Please follow this closely because 95% of men just don't understand what I'm about to share with you...

The Problem With Clitoral Orgasms

Clitoral orgasms are wonderful.

They give women a lot of sexual pleasure and as a man, you should aim to give your woman a clitoral orgasm every time you make-love to her. (You can do this be giving her excellent ORAL SEX or by stimulating her clitoris with your fingers).

So far so good.

But, there is a problem with this type of orgasm and here's what it is:

After a woman has a clitoral orgasm, her clitoris usually becomes really sensitive. Way too sensitive to stimulate any further.

What this means is that women can usually only have one clitoral orgasm per 'sexual encounter'. In other words -- if you want to give your woman MULTIPLE ORGASMS, you need to 'get her off' in other ways.

So the bottom line is that the clitoral orgasm is great, but it's not the only type of pleasure you need to give your woman.

The Secret To Multiple Orgasms

You could try to give your woman a nipple orgasm.

You could try to give her a squirting orgasm or even an ANAL ORGASM. "YES", really - those do exist.

But here's the thing...

If you want to become GREAT IN BED and be the kind of guy that can totally blow your woman's mind, you have to do things in a sensible order.

And squirting, anal and nipple orgasms should come after the type of orgasm I'm about to share with you:

The VAGINAL ORGASM.

Vaginal orgasms are the secret to giving your woman MULTIPLE ORGASMS.

Here's why:

Once you give your woman a vaginal orgasm, her vagina does not become overly sensitive. This is in sharp contrast to what happens to the clitoris.

Can you see where this is going?

Yeah, you got it...

This means that once you give your woman one vaginal orgasm, you can then go ahead and give her another and another and another.

I've known many women who could quite easily have in excess of 10 of these wonderful orgasms every time they had sex. Needless to say -- these women were always way more sexually fulfilled than the average woman whose man is only giving her clitoral orgasms.

By the way, to discover more about how to give your woman vaginal orgasms and truly GREAT SEX, click HERE.
Adam Armstrong is a Sex Coach who teaches men how to give their women Incredible Sexual Pleasure

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One Night Stands With Women - The Mindset That You Need to Have

There certainly is a certain mindset that a man needs to have if he is going to be successful at having one night stands. If you are like most guys and you are preoccupied with all of the little details and you have a hard time staying in the moment when you are around a woman that you really desire, then you are probably going to have a hard time if you want to participate in your own one night stand. You need to cultivate the right mindset to do well because if you neglect this aspect of things, you are going to regret it later on.

Let's Get Started -

The first thing that I think you have to do is something that is very counter intuitive and you have to act as if having sex with a woman is the last thing on your mind - at least, at first you have to appear this way. This all goes back to the fact that women are invariably turned off by men that act as if the only thing on their mind is to get laid. Well, at least the majority of women are. So, that is one thing that you need to do right from the very beginning. At some point, of course you are going to have to make it clear that you are up for a little romp in the bedroom, but not in the very beginning.

Make Her Feel Like You Are One in a Million -

Most women are naturally going to be resistant to the idea of hooking up with a guy for a one night stand. So, they are going to have their defenses up and that is okay. You can deal with that and still end up with a fun evening IF you are able to make her feel like you are a one in a million kind of guy. What I mean by that is - most women won't regret a one night stand if they feel like they have just met a great guy who is not likely to cross their path just any day of the week. So, you need to have the mindset that you really ARE a one in a million kind of guy. Feel that way and you will begin to project that air about you and she will begin to think of you that way.

Make Her Feel Desire -

Obviously, hooking up with a woman for a one night fling requires that she is sexually attracted to you. More to the point, she needs to feel intense DESIRE to be with you. This is not an easy thing to make a woman feel, but when you know what you are doing and you can make her feel that way, it becomes a lot more probable that she will end up with you. The thing is, desire has to be created slowly at first and then escalated as you go along. At least, in my experience that is what will give you the highest success rate when it comes to getting her into bed with you. You have to have the slow and steady mindset if you want to win the race and make her feel like she desires to be with you.

It's not that hard to learn how to have a one night stand when you know exactly what to do to make a woman feel desire to be with YOU.

Go to: How to Seduce Women to learn EXACTLY what you need to do.

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