How to Tell if He Likes You

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At some point in her life, every girl as probably asked her friends how to tell if a guy likes you. Men can be extremely confusing sometimes, and mixed signals are seriously frustrating when a girl is trying to determine the next step in a prospective relationship. Unfortunately, there's no single answer to the question of how to tell if a guy likes you. Every guy will express his interest in his own way, so you will need to get to know him better in order to interpret all of his actions. Nevertheless, there are a few guidelines you can follow that will help to gauge his interest:
He'll want to spend time with you. A guy who likes you will make time in his schedule to see you. If he spontaneously drops by your workplace or texts you randomly throughout the day, there's a pretty good chance that he likes you. If he seems to be busy every time you talk to him or is always forgetting your plans, he's probably not that into you.He'll tease you a little. For many guys, teasing is a natural part of flirtation. If he makes playful comments about you, it shows he's paying attention and trying to be funny. Don't confuse teasing with bullying, though; if your prospective guy hurts your feelings with his comments, you don't have to put up with it. Tell him to knock it off and pursue a guy with respect.He'll show off around you. Guys like to impress potential objects of affection. Guys might show off things they're particularly proud of, like their cars or athletic prowess. They might also be inclined to tell you details about their hobbies or accomplishments.He asks you about yourself. A truly interested guy won't spend all of his time talking about himself; he'll also try to get to know you better. He'll ask you about your interests, how your day went or what your plans are for the week. More importantly, he actually listens to what you say.He remembers things you've told him. A guy who pays attention to you and remembers things you've said is a guy who's genuinely interested in you as a person. The interest may be friendly or it could be romantic, but any time a guy recalls things from previous conversations it's a good sign that he likes you.He's happy to see you. If a guy really likes you, he'll look forward to seeing you even if he's too busy to hang out. He'll perk up when he sees you, and you'll be able to hear a smile in his voice when you call.He says he likes you. It should be pretty self-evident that a guy likes you if he says he does. Although you may be tempted to second-guess his intentions or try to read deeper meaning into what he says, guys are usually pretty good at telling you exactly what they think about something. If he says he's into you, he probably is.If you're wondering how to tell if a guy likes you, the easiest thing to do might be to just ask. Although it might feel uncomfortable or embarrassing at first to be so straightforward, you can save yourself a lot of second-guessing. Most guys will probably be relieved at an opportunity to explain how they feel. If he doesn't seem sure how he feels or dodges the subject, you know that you're probably wasting your time with him and can move on to more enthusiastic prospects.

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Romantic Stargazing

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The cool night air, vast dark sky, and wishing upon a shooting star. Whether it's stargazing, wishing on shooting stars, or taking in a meteor shower, the lights of the Universe spark romance in way like no other.

Star light, star bright,
first star I see tonight.
I wish I may, I wish I might,
have the wish, I wish tonight.
We'll make a wish, and do as dreamers do,
and all our wishes (all our wishes),
will come true.
from Disney's Wishes

Romantic stargazing can be as easy as taking a walk at night together, hand-in-hand, to view the stars and constellations. In fact, it's the perfect way to end a great date, connecting you on a whole other level.

However, to really experience the wonder, amazement, and incredible romance the universe presents, you should plan a complete stargazing date night. Imagine lying together on a blanket, surrounded by the vast Universe, the feel of your bodies close in the still of the night, with nothing but calm silence other than the sound of your heart beat and breaths. The experience is so intimate and intense it will take your relationship to another level.

First, get yourself a good star chart to help you identify stars and constellations. Your best choice is a planisphere, which is a revolving wheel that helps you identify the stars in the sky on any particular night. The Guide to the Stars Chart to the left is the one that we use when stargazing. You simply select the month, day, and time of day and you'll have a complete chart of the current stars along with directions on how to identify them.

While not completely necessary, you may want to use a telescope, particularly if you're interested in viewing the moon, the planets, and the stars up close. Bring along a large blanket for two, so that you can lay back on the ground side by side and view the sky. If it's a cooler month, bring along an extra blanket or sleeping bag to cuddle up in for warmth. Pack a midnight picnic along with some hot chocolate or a bottle of wine to make the night complete.

If you're looking for an incredibly unique and romantic date, plan it during a meteor shower. A few of the exciting annual meteor showers include the Leonid Showers in November, the Perseid Shower in August, and the Orionid Shower in October. These shows, which result from the Earth passing through debris and dust left behind from comets, produce spectacular shows. The Leonid showers, for example, can exceed more than 1000 meteors per hour!

Leonid Shower - November 17th-18th
The Leonid meteor shower results from debris left behind by the Tempel-Tuttle Comet. The Earth passes through this debris every November, in the opposite direction, which produces a spectacular show including meteors in hues of white. blue, aquamarine, and green, with the occasional possible fire burst. It is truly one of the most spectacular shows to see. In fact, in 2009, the Earth passed through debris laid down by the comet in the year 1466!

While you will see meteors throughout the night sky, start by looking towards the constellation Leo, which is the radiant for this shower.

For a preview of what you can see, check out this Space.com video of the Leonids meteor shower:

Perseid Shower - August 11th-12th
A favorite of enthusiasts, the Perseid shower results from debris left behind by the Swift-Tuttle comet. In 2009, the Earth passed through the near center of the trail left by the comet in 1610!

While you will see meteors throughout the night sky, start by looking towards the constellation Perseus, which is the radiant for this shower.

Orionid Shower - October 20th-21st
The Orionid meteor shower results from debris left behind by Hailey's Comet. According to star watchers, the Orionid shower may not be one of the most intense, it's one of the prettiest.

While you will see meteors throughout the night sky, start by looking towards the constellation Orion's left shoulder, which is the radiant for this shower.

For the best -- and most romantic -- meteor viewing experience, first check NASA's Space.com website for prime viewing days and hours. Often, the best viewing is in the wee hours of the morning -- the 2009 Leonid shower had a peek around 4 am EST.

Once you know when to go, figure out where to go. The best viewing is generally in more rural areas, away from city lights. If there are nearby local lights, such as lamp posts, try to scout a location where the lights are blocked by a tree or building.

Dress warmly and take a blanket (or two) so that you can lay down together on your backs looking up at the sky. Bring along a midnight picnic and a bottle of wine for an extra spark of romance.

Most of all, have patience! Experts recommend that you give your eyes at least 5 minutes to adjust to the dark and 30-60 minutes to for the show. While astronomer's generally estimate the number of meteors that you'll view in a given hour, the actual meteors tend to come in bursts, with lulls that can get discouraging. Don't worry about bringing along a telescope or binoculars as meteors move too quickly for them to be of any use.

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Valentine's Day Horoscopes

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Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18) Valentine's Day is a day to focus on love, and you, lucky Aquarius, fall into this special category every year. 2012 is looking to be a good year for you in love, and Valentine's Day is no exception. Even if you are single, expect to be made to feel special by the people around you. Relax, have fun, and go with it. Make yourself extra romantic by taking a candle lit bubble bath with a glass of wine, and if you are in a relationship you should allow your partner to pamper you. You deserve it! Be careful not to be too tough on either yourself or you partner this Valentine's Day. You are the dreamer of the astrological chart, but this year has some tough things ahead of you. You might feel critical or annoyed with your partner if you are in a relationship. If not, be careful not to take things out on your friends or family. Some quiet, introspective time could do you good on this day. This can be a time for changing your attitude and finding positivity if you allow it. Relationships are top on your radar this Valentine's Day. You can expect to be surprised by your partner if you are in a relationship, or possibly surprised by something else if you are not. Is that an ex-flame popping up out of nowhere? Anything is possible for you this Valentine's Day. Make sure that you are open and honest with your feelings or you could let true love slip away. Don't fret if you don't have anyone in your life right now, as there are changes coming around the corner. The bull needs to be aware of the sensitivity of the alignment of the planets and take care with those around. It is of utmost importance that you keep your heart open today, as there are people who want to get closer to you if you'll let them. Don't be bull-headed and push away those who care about you. Most of all, have a fun day and try to be carefree. You have an outstanding year ahead of you regardless of what happens today. If you are currently in a relationship this Valentine's Day might make you question your commitment to it. It's not anything specific that happens, just a general feeling that it might be time to make a decision or move on. Beware of sexy tempting strangers during this time of emotional chaos. Take good care of yourself and you will get through this day with no problems. Remember to take care with others feelings. You should have a fun day today. Chances are high that you have someone special that you are spending at least part of the day with. Alas, Cancer, your relationship might not be meant to last. This is a year all about emotional growth and learning for you, and sometimes relationships don't fit into that puzzle. If you are committed, make sure that your partner knows that you need some time and space to work on improving the spiritual and psychological sides of your life. Love might not be your highest priority today, Leo. If you don't want to focus on it, don't. Spend the day working or doing something fun that you enjoy. A hike in nature could help provide some balance away from your focus on your career. Otherwise, keep the holiday casual. Dinner and a movie or wine with a friend would be a perfect way to relax and unwind. Don't feel pressured by Valentine's Day to do anything that will leave you feeling less than happy. Avoid the part of your Virgo nature today that can be extra critical. If you are involved, don't create expectations that will leave you feeling unsatisfied, as is sometimes the case with sensitive Virgo. If you are single, make the best of it by ignoring Valentine's Day entirely or doing something fun with friends. Music is a great way to lighten the mood and leave you feeling replenished today. This is a time for taking chances. Have you had your eye on someone special? Try asking them out on a date. It might feel scary, but it will be an empowering experience for you. Remember that if you keep your heart open, good things will eventually happen. It is possible that your risk-taking behavior will pay off on the romantic front. If coupled, try something new with your partner to spice things up. If you have been having doubts about love, this is a day that will help ease your fears. It can help to talk to someone close to you about the way that you are feeling. Journaling is another good way to release the tensions that have been residing inside you for the past few weeks. Remember that things will work out the way that they are meant to, and you can relax and let them happen without stressing over the outcome. Your Valentine's Day horoscope says that this is a good year for you in love, and Valentine's Day will be no exception. Listen to your heart and you will be rewarded with special gifts of love and trust. It really is fun to let yourself go a little bit, so consider doing something extra exciting today. This will only stimulate the love feelings that you have been having as of late. This is a time for you to be extremely honest with yourself about what you want in your love life. If you are not happy, it is time to admit it. While this is not an easy task, it will provide you with much more happiness in the future. If you feel happy, then admit those feelings. It is time to let loose with your tongue about the way that you feel. This will cause immense happiness in those around you.

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If You Could Ask Women Anything, What Would It Be?

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It's no secret that women are hard to understand. We can never be sure what'll turn them on, turn them off or arouse their fury. And we really don't know what they're saying when guys aren't around.

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3 Reasons Why Marriages Fail For Men

Before I list why marriages fail for men, let me define what I mean by a man?s marriage failing.

What I mean here when I say that a marriage fails is that your wife has lost interest in you. Or at least, she?s not as interested in you as you?d like.

If it gets bad, she eventually expresses her disinterest in you by either: a) wanting to leave you, or b) cheating on you.

And it may happen in degrees, but to whatever extent she?s disinterested, the marriage is failing.

(By the way, I recently created a system to make you skyrocket your wife's interest in you. It's called Wife Magnet .

The three below reasons why marriages fail for men are simply violations of Wife Magnet Secrets #1 & #2. Do make sure to check out Wife Magnet if you want to fix your marriage or protect it from failing.)

So if you want to keep your wife's interest, don?t let these 3 reasons why marriages fail happen to you:

Why Marriages Fail For Men Reason #1: Ego

Get this one handled first. This is often the first reason why marriages fail. Honestly, step on your ego a little and half your problems will be solved.

If you get this handled, you may not even need to know the other two reasons why marriages fail for men.

It?s your ego that?s busy holding grudges, that can?t forgive.

It?s your ego that makes you lose your temper and do stupid things.

It?s your ego that stops you from learning how to be a bigger man and a better husband.

It?s your ego that prevents you from repairing your relationship when you?ve screwed up?unless you?re like me and you never screw up. Okay, okay, I admit it, I?ve screwed up?more times than I care to remember.

And you have to. It happens, man. Get over it. Just fix it.

I can think of at least two pivotal moments in my marriage?you know, those moments when everything changes?that if I had held on to my ego, I?m confident I wouldn?t still be married to my wife.

The first was about 5 years into my marriage when things had gotten so bad and I was so distant from my wife that she couldn?t take it any more and wanted a divorce.

Things sucked so bad between me and my wife at that time that I wasn?t against the idea of divorce. But I wanted to first make sure that I had at least done my part as a man to make things work.

At that time, I heard some advice from my spiritual guide to step on my ego, and I realized that I had let my ego get in the way a lot in our marriage, and I realized that it was a big reason why my marriage was failing.

So I forced myself to think, What would be the hardest stinkin? thing for my ego to endure?

Aha! I got it: a love song!

Oh God, the thought of it! Could anything be more humiliating?!

Anyone who knows me can imagine how hard that would?ve been on my ego?especially back then, when I actually really resented my wife.

But I wasn't contented to have my ego be the reason why my marriage was to fail

So I made the choice to let those resentments go and really love my wife. So I wrote her a love song and called it ?Beautiful Girl, Come Back to Me," and I sang it to her.

She melted.

Score: Jemal, 1. Ego, 0. Yessss!!

Maybe one day--if you convince me--I'll let you have a copy of the song.

Our marriage still wasn?t perfect after that, but that was definitely a new point of departure for us and our definitely went up a level.

Because I had let go of my the reason why my marriage was failing: my ego.

Another occasion, not that long ago, things were shaky between me and my wife.

I travelled to New York to meet privately for six hours with a guy who?s arguably one of the world?s greatest ladies? men.

His name is Stephen. He teaches men how to be naturally more attractive and how to have happier, stronger relationships.

He and I got to talking about why my marriage was failing at that point--even if it was much better than before.

We got to talking about how I wasn?t open with my wife. I wouldn?t tell her things that would make me vulnerable, things that she could criticize me for?at that moment or later.

You and I know both know that when it comes to women ?anything you say can and will be used against you?? I?ve experienced it enough times, and I?m sure you have to.

We?re not stupid: put us down enough, criticize us enough, and we?re not gonna open up anymore. Right?

So I had stopped opening up with my wife.

But the advice I got from Stephen surprised me. He was the only one that had ever really presented me with that advice.

He actually addressed me from a spiritual, selfless perspective. He?s not Muslim, but he knew I?m a Muslim who aspires to be spiritual. So he asked me what a spiritual Muslim would do.

What the?! Caught me off guard. I thought to myself, Where is this ?ladies? man? going with this? I was looking for advice about attraction, not spirituality. I was hoping to better understand why marriages fail in general and why my marriage was failing, in particular.

I wasn't there for spiritual advice. I already have my spiritual guide. But Stephen had won me over. He?s a smart, insightful, likeable, cool guy. So I heard him out. And I?m glad I did.

He said to me, ?Be open and vulnerable with her, not for you sake, but for hers. And if when you lay your heart out there?it gets stomped on?then?do it again.?

Unusual advice, but it really stuck. And to be honest, had a woman given me that kind of advice, I might have blown it off. But this was coming from a guy who was manly, was cool, and knew what he was talking about.

He was in a lasting committed relationship, with a woman he was deeply in love with, even though he could have just about any woman he wanted. I knew he wasn?t the sort of guy who just spoke empty words.

So when I got back to Toronto, I took his advice. And I laid my heart out there?or you could say, I laid my ego out there. And guess what! It got stomped on. But guess what! It happens. Your wife will test you. She will test your strength. She will test your genuineness. And it will irritate the hell out of you.

And when my wife stomped on my ego, it did irritate the hell out of me. So I was about to walk out the door. No wonder why marriages fail--when women act the way they do, right?

But then I remembered Stephen?s advice. (?sigh?) ?And if when you lay it out there, it?s stomped on?do it again!?

So I did. I went back to my wife and laid my ego on the line yet again. Damn, that was hard! But this time?she didn?t stomp on it. She simply melted.

And we had a turning point in our marriage at that moment that we had never had in our entire 11 years of marriage up to that point.

Trust me, man: look for opportunities to let go of your own ego, and just let it go. You will have a more happy marriage because of it. You will have a more interested wife because of it. And you will be more of a man because of it.

Let go of your ego and you might not even need to worry about the second reason why marriages fail for men.

Why Marriages Fail For Men Reason #2: Blame

The second reason why marriages fail for men is that they convince themselves that women are the reason why marriages fail.

Man, I can?t tell you how many times I?ve heard a husband complain about his wife, and I think to myself, ?Dude, she?s not the problem. You are.? Of course, I often tell him that, too. (It's the tough love I have to give sometimes.)

Listen, bro: Your wife is not the reason why your marriage is failing. Stop blaming your wife for any marriage problems you face. Stop blaming her for how she treats you.

Have you ever heard the saying, ?We teach people how to treat us?? If you haven?t, then you need to write it down right now: ?We teach people how to treat us.?

So ask yourself, ?How am I teaching my wife to treat me??

My wife treats me with honour, love, and respect. She likes to think it?s because of what a wonderful woman she is. And she is a wonderful woman. But it?s because I won?t accept anything less from her.

And so she lives up to my expectations. I teach her how to treat me. And if she treats me wrong, I have no one to blame but myself.

So step up, be a man, and behave like a man that she can?t help but treat like a king. If she?s not treating you like a king, maybe you haven?t proven to her your worthiness. So stop blaming her for it. Just change how you are, and she?ll change how she is with you.

She won?t be able to help herself. Her heart will just melt when she thinks of you and when she?s around you. And trust me: a woman that adores you will treat you very differently from a woman that doesn?t adore you.

So if she?s not treating you how you?d like, then she doesn?t adore you enough, and don?t blame her for that. You just need to become the man she can?t help but adore.

Why Marriages Fail For Men Reason #3: Logic

What?! How can logic be a reason why marriages fail?! Well, read on, and you'll see.

How your wife behaves depends on how she feels. And how she feels will never change with logic. So don?t try to convince your wife with logic that she should behave differently.

It?s not about logic. It?s about emotion. So get used to thinking in terms of emotion, and not in terms of logic. Many men fail to recognize their wife's emotions, and that's a big reason why marriages fail for them.

On a practical level, what does that mean? For one, it means stop arguing with her and trying to convince her to see things your way. If you inspire her emotions, she?ll give everything to please you?even if she thinks you?re wrong. Cuz it doesn?t matter whether, logically, you?re right or wrong. What matters is how you make her feel.

Setting aside logic also means that you need to stop judging her feelings. Her feelings are her feelings. It doesn?t matter if you think they ?make sense? or not. Because it?s not about logic; it?s about feelings. It?s all about emotions.

Stop trying to ?reason? with your wife. Instead, just ?emotion? with her.

She?s not a guy. She?s a girl. Appreciate that. Stop trying to make her like a guy and ?straighten? her. Just let her be a girl and enjoy the curvature.

Keep Your Wife Magnetized!

Jemal Jelil.
"The World's 1st Keepup Artist "

P.S. If you haven?t yet read ?3 Steps To Solving Any Marriage Problems A Husband Will Ever Face,? click here to go from Why Marriages Fail to Solving Marriage Problems .

P.P.S. If you want to learn more about why marriages fail, how they succeed, how to dazzle your wife, and so on...or if you just don't wanna miss out on anything, make sure you check out The Secret to a Happy Marriage .

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Jemal Jelil has been married for over a decade, and has gone from miserably married to verily happily married. Find out his secret to a happy marriage when you sign up for his "Magnetism Method" course while it's still available. Sign up now.

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Hey, bro.? Welcome to my Just Husbands Blog.? Here you'll find valuable tips on how to have a happy marriage.? Check it out regularly so you don't miss anything.? Jemal.

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I just wanted to apologize to all of you for not having been in touch for a while. I know several of you have written me asking for advice, and I haven't replied to you all yet. I've been struggling to manage my time so that I respond to your questions. I know the world must feel as if it's collapsing over you, and it breaks my heart that I haven't responded (my chest feels constricted even as I write this). I'm working out a plan to stay in touch better. Jemal.

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Couples Making Love Positions Advice for Husbands (no pics)

First, why bother with different couples making love positions?

Well one instrinsic benefit to different positions is variety and Intrigue.

If you're not clear on the role that Intrigue plays in a happy marriage, make sure you sign up for my free "Magnetism Method" course now and check out Lesson #4:

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But beyond the advantage of Intrigue, there are other advantages that each position can provide, including:

-Maneuverability: such as ease of thrusting
-Accessibility: your ability to see and touch parts of your wife's body
-Comfort
-Stimulation: which of your wife's orgasmic areas you can reach
-Emotional connection

If you want full detail of the relevance of each of these factors, you can check out my Recommended Marriage Resources page or get this book on how to be a Maestro Lover and read it, especially Chapters 10 & 11 of Book 3 (pp. 112-132).

So what are the different couples making love positions, anyway?

Well, you may find some resources listing 40 or 50 or 100, or even 365 couples making love positions, but...

You can reduce most positions to four fundamental positions:

1. Man on top (often called Missionary)
2. Woman on top (often called Cowgirl)
3. Rear entry (sometimes called Doggie-style, not a name I care for)
4. Side-by-side

These have many variations.

Now, remember I mentioned the advantages that different couples love making positions have? Well, I want to focus on just one of the factors, because I don't want to make this article too long.

That factor is: Stimulation.

Certain positions will allow you to stimulate her different orgasm zones better than others. I want you to keep those different zones in mind when applying different couples making love positions.

So what are those different orgasm zones, anyway?

Pay attention! Because here is where I give you the keys to the kingdom.

The 3 primary orgasm zones for a woman are:
1. The clitoris
2. The G-spot
3. The deep spot

The clitoris is the little knob above her vaginal opening, which lies underneath the clitoral hood, where the two vaginal lips (or labia) meet. It swells, enlarges, and hardens when a woman is aroused. Pay attention to stimulating it, because is has even more nerve endings (and hence sensitivity) than a man's entire penis.

The G-spot is a little circular area about two inches inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall. When it is stimulated, it swells into a big bump.

The deep spot, sometimes called the A-spot is deep inside at the top of the vagina near the beginning of the cervix. It is actually two spots:
1) towards the front vaginal wall, and
2) towards the back vaginall wall.

The beginning of the cervix is in the middle. As a simple model, if you're looking from the side of the body, imagine the inside of the vagina as a "Y." The deep spot is along the left and right branches (i.e. the towards the front and towards the back) of the Y, but not in the middle. Note that the deep spot is stimulated by firm pressure.

IMORTANT: Remember to pay attention to her responses, her breathing, her body movements to determine if she's getting more and more aroused. If it's working, keep doing it!

Remember to keep in mind The ABCs of Pleasuring Your Wife as you stimulate those 3 orgasm zones.

So, why should you know about these 3 orgasm zones? Well, now you can see that your ability to stimulate them will depend on your positioning.

So whichever of the couples making love positions you choose, focus on stimulating those three zones.

Now, go drive your wife wild!

Jemal.

P.S. If you want more tips to drive your wife wild (starting with my free Magnetism Method course--the secret to getting your wife to adore you and do anything for you), just fill out the below and click the button:

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