You may wonder how such an article can come from a tantra teacher. Isn't tantra all abut having more, better sex? Where does the concept of abstaining from sex - or celibacy - fit into the tantric sciences?
The fact is, there is absolutely no contradiction. Tantra is not the science of sex, but the science of spiritual awakening. When sex takes place in a state of higher consciousness, it becomes a celestial experience. However, tantra is definitely not just about sex. In fact, celibacy during the initial period of tantra instructions is a definite advantage to the tantric student.
In India, the concept of 'brahmacharya' endures to the present day. What is brahmacharya? It refers to a period in a young man's life during which he devotes himself to the study of scriptures. During this period, strict celibacy is a pre-requisite. In fact, most monastic schools of thought also adhere to the belief that in tantra, the period of celibacy is limited only to the time it takes to learn the basic tantra lessons and understand their spiritual basis.
Since tantra is a spiritual science, it must be approached with an attitude of learning. Once the basic tenets and teachings of this ancient science have been fully understood, their powers can become manifest in the physical realm far more effectively. I also advocate a period of celibacy to students whose ideas and impressions about intimate relationships have become warped and toxic - either because of familial or social conditioning of because of leading a perverted lifestyle.
In such cases, unlearning the toxic beliefs and gaining fresh perspectives is of paramount importance. Engaging in sex during this period hinders the cleansing process, because it is likely to reinforce the old beliefs.
A period of self-imposed celibacy has special physical benefits for men. It is no secret that the seminal fluid is a very potent mix of powerful nutrients. Excessive ejaculation - either in the course of sexual binges or because of continuous self-gratification - will reduce the presence of these vital nutrients in the body. The effects of continual and excessive loss of these nutrients can especially be seen in reduced nervous endurance and mental acumen.
By the same coin, conserving them gives rise to renewed clarity, vitality and vigour. The body's stores of these nutrients are replenished. I have often heard my male students report astonishing results after a two-week period of celibacy and intensified learning of the tantric scriptures.
Finally, a period of celibacy between intimate partners can also rekindle the dying embers of fading sexual appetite. If the partners are also undergoing a tantra for couples course in this period, they stand to benefit significantly.
Therefore, do not be surprised if your tantra teacher advises you to undergo a period of sexual abstinence. By all means, ask him how long this period will be and what will happen in the interim. It is important that you understand every aspect of your tantric instructions, and your tantra master will be most willing to clarify all your doubts.
Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with deep knowledge of traditional Indian sciences. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons from this young Tantra Master.
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