It is true to say that guys are turned on by what they see. A recent Cosmo sex poll says that 52% of men are moved by what they see, with 37% saying that their sexual performance and arousal is better if what they see is accompanied by what they hear such as dirty talking and moaning. According to Aline Zoldbrod, author of Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On, PhD and sex therapist, the key to determining what your man loves to hear during sex is knowing what makes him feel different then work your way up from there. "Even heavy breathing makes sex mind blowing and very sensual" she adds.
Most girls do soft core dirty talk though they may not realize it. Soft core dirty talking include moaning and heavy breathing and using passionate phrases such as 'yes!', 'I feel so good', 'keep doing that baby' and others that come naturally. This, however, is not enough. You cannot use the same phrases for two decades, you need to up your game and give your man the best sex talk he has ever had. To achieve this, you need to learn a few things about dirty talking.
First off, dirty talking is all about experimentation to perfection. The first couple of times you try something new, it may be awkward, even odd, but with time you will learn just what moves your man and you will perfect it. Regina Thomashauer, the author of Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide to Men says that most girls do not realize that being vocal during sex is not just about personality but also about practice. She advises beginners to start with basic dirty talk routines such as telling him what to do, telling him what she feels and commending his efforts through words and body movements.
Even if you are more than prepared to talk dirty, it will all go to waste if you are not in the right mindset. It is good to start with flirting and sexting before you are together to set the right mood. Turning him on early is the best way to get him prepared and you will realize that it will work for you. When at last you get in bed, remember to express yourself freely knowing that there are only the two of you in that room and do not hold back in any way - both in what you say and what you do.
My name is Maya and I'm in mid 30s. I have a happy family and my sex life is better than perfect. I know a lot about sex, being a sexual therapist and knowing the importance of sex in a relationship or a marriage. My aim is to help men and women have better sex lives, be happy and make every sexual experience exciting and new. Find out more on http://www.learn-to-talk-dirty.com/ on sex and talking dirty to enjoy your full sexual potential.
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