There are many reasons to enter the swinging lifestyle. Here you will read about some of the benefits of swinging, and some of the reasons not to swing. There are some wonderful benefits to swinging. It's not just the amazing experiences you get to share with your partner. You get a better understanding between each other and a more solid trust develops that cannot be built up in any other way.
It can make you more confident in talking with others. Not just in the lifestyle but in any area of life where you interact with anyone else. Having the ability to approach others and talk with them in a relaxed social manner is another skill that is enhanced through swinging.
Many people have commented that their sex life with each other has turned out much better as a result of becoming swingers. I think it can be put down to the fact that swingers are usually not seeking better sex, but different sex out of swinging. Life is about having a variety of wonderful experiences and swinging can provide that.
Swinging can strengthen the intimacy in your relationship. It also gives your relationship a new source of fun and excitement that you can look forward to once a month or however often you go out swinging.
There are so of the many reasons that you may want to swing, but there are also several reasons for you to not try swinging. Here are some words about that.
If you think it will help to fix your relationship you are horribly mistaken. You should have a rock solid relationship in the first place before you start. It will not repair a relationship - it will enhance your relationship.
If you are only doing it to please your partner because they want to do it then maybe it is not for you as a couple, and you need to sort out a few things between you both first.
If you are bored with your current sex life or relationship, you should look at other self-help or relationship enhancing avenues first. Fix up the sex between you both first and then you will be better prepared to enter the lifestyle. On a similar note, if you expect that your partner will become more sexually open to learning new things from swinging then it might not be the best thing for you both. Again you should be looking at other self-help resources to broaden your partner's horizons.
If you have fears that your partner may be cheating and you feel that swinging is a way to give them an avenue to have sex with others but with your permission, then maybe swinging is not for you just yet.
Again, fix your relationship first. You need to look at why you are having those fears in the first place. How solid is your relationship?
If you want to cheat and feel that this is almost like cheating but with permission, then swinging is not for you. Swinging should be a couple's activity that you do as a couple with a mutual understanding between you both. If you are doing it to cheat then you are being selfish and only looking out for your own interests.
So there are both sides to the decision on whether to enter the swinging lifestyle or not. The above information will help you to decide what is best for you.
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