Talking dirty to your man during sex is not as hard as it may seem. As a matter of fact, it can be one of the easiest things you can do if you have the right tips and know how to go about it. In this post, I have 5 crucial tips that I think you will find beneficial in learning how to talk dirty to your man.
Tip 5: When you are horny, speak your mind and accompany the words with actions. When having sex, you will find that almost all the time there are a lot of nasty and naughty things that go through your head because of the pleasure you are experiencing. These are the naughty nasty things you are supposed to be saying to talk dirty, they come naturally for most girls.
Tip 4: Learning to talk dirty during sex is all about indulgence in active imagination and being open and free to express your emotions and feelings in words. What if it is your friend you are having sex with or just a one night-stand? What are your sexual fantasies? Imagine it being a sexy friend that you ended up in bed with after a night of drinking and you are energized and feeling wonderful about yourself. The sex will obviously feel wonderful and orgasms will be very powerful - sex happens in the mind as much as in the body. If you can express what you have in your mind every other time then talking dirty when you are having great sex should not be so difficult.
Tip 3: Talk dirty like you are having sex with some stranger that you usually imagine having sex with - say a doctor in a clinic, a prince in a castle or a pirate in a pirate ship. The affair, since it would be something that will not last, will make you make the most of it and say what comes to mind. Tell him what you want him to do and what to say - after all, this is a 'once in a lifetime' experience and the stranger will be gone by the time the two of you are wasted and lying in bed later.
Tip 2: Describe the thoughts you have running in your mind. These can be imaginations, descriptions and expression of feelings but they can cause sexual arousal and bring out the beast in him - sexually. Whisper in his ear even before you are in bed, for instance when you are having dinner or a drink in a restaurant or when he is driving and you are headed home. Do not be afraid to indulge in the details particularly what you want him to do or what you are going to do to him. The perfection of dirty talking is in the details.
Tip 1: The first level of dirty talking is sexual sounds particularly moaning. Start with this level as the heat of the moment rises. Moan and do not be afraid to let him know about it. Show your appreciation to what he is doing by giving audible feedback or add 'soundtrack' to the scene accompanied by body movement. Moaning is often the most natural form of dirty talk that you should perfect first before moving on to level 2 which is dirty talk which is not-so-dirty.
These are the top 5 dirty talk tips I could come up with for a good girl. Remember that it is not all about what you say during sex, it is also about how you say it, what actions and body movements accompany it and how you build up to that moment earlier before foreplay.
Maya is a dirty girl, and she is sharing some of the best dirty talk tips with you. There however is a lot more you need to know about talking dirty to improve your sex life and relationship. Go to http://www.learn-to-talk-dirty.com/ to find professional advice, tips and guidelines on talking dirty.
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