To perfect dirty talking, you do not need to take courses on how to be a sex operator, or watch a dozen porn movies. Being good at talking dirty doesn't take a lifetime to practice either; if you have a creative mind, willing to try new things, are open and most importantly are willing to learn and practice, then you can perfect the art of dirty talking and improve your sex life. This article presents you with a couple of simple steps to follow on how to talk dirty - and perfectly for that matter.
Step 1: It starts with you
Sit down when you are alone and take some time to think about what you like and what you like about your partner. If you can write down those physical things that you like about your love - his penetrating eyes, his firm butt, his strong hands, his hard d*ck... and the list goes on. Next, make a list of the emotional things you love about him - how he whispers in your ear, that special smile he gives you, how you feel after he kisses you and so forth.
Step 2: List down the important things
Now that you know how things are and what you like, it's time to narrow it down and make a list of those things that you want him to say or do to you during sex. Get specific and list down every detail - such as how you want him to kiss your neck when he is on top of you, how you want him to spank you when he is behind you and how you want him to squeeze your boobs. The list can be long, but those that come to your mind first are most likely the most important.
Step 3: Refine your list
Now that you have the lists, add adjectives to it. Do you like his hands? How strong are his hands? Do you love how he squeezes your nipples? How tingly does it feel? You want him to kiss your neck. What sensation does it send down your spine? Get as specific as you can - write even the most hardcore stuff you can think of.
Step 4. Take it to the bedroom
Start simple. Use the phrases you wrote in bed - it may seem difficult at first but with time everything you wrote will come to your mind slowly - it will get to a point you will perfect dirty talking. Remember that to perfect dirty talking in bed, you have to be free and open to your partner and be willing to try new things. It is good to start with softcore phrases such as telling him how soft his hands are and how amazing his d*ck feels inside you.
Step 5: Practice, practice and practice. Over and over again
You have to practice dirty talking to perfect it. With time, you will get to learn new things and especially on what turns your partner on and off and what you should and shouldn't say. Just as you are doing now, research more and if possible, get a more detailed eBook with all the examples and guides you need to perfect the dirty talk.
Maya Collins is an expert when it comes to dirty talk, relationship building and sex. She can teach you how to talk dirty with confidence and she has successfully assisted many couples enjoy sex and build their relationships. Visit http://www.learn-to-talk-dirty.com/ for more dirty talk techniques, tips and ideas.
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