You may think that it's impossible to get her toes curling and her orgasms 'cumming' but actually it's easy to please your woman, once you know what you are doing and what she likes.
Do you know those hot spots that turn her on and make her want more? Do you know how to get her in the mood before you start turning on your charm?
Getting her in the mood starts by stimulating all of her senses and taking it slowly while you do so. You don't want to run over to her and start grabbing her boobs or pulling down her pants because that shows that you are just there for sex, which may be true, but it's not what she wants. She wants to know that you are interested in her body and mind and that you care about her orgasms and pleasure as much as you care about your own.
So touch her sensually and tell her how sexy she is. Tell her how much you love her or how hot her body is. Do things that will get her mind thinking about sex and what you will do to her in bed. This can be the equivalent of a women bending down to pretend to pick up something in front of a guy. Whether you touch something with a sexual suggestion or let her catch you looking at her sexually, you will be sending her brain the message of sex. Once you got her brain thinking about it her body will follow.
In bed you need to know the spots that turn her on and go to them as well as keep her engaged mentally. Sometimes it can feel like a man is just in bed for one reason; for him to have an orgasm.
Making eye contact in bed is a huge turn on because it lets her know that you are thinking about her and acknowledging that she's a huge reason you are in bed in the first place. Kissing is another overlooked but sensual thing that a women loves in bed. It creates an emotional connection that goes beyond all the other things done in bed.
Knowing how to give her an orgasm when the time is right is huge. Do you spend most of your time trying to give her an orgasm with your penis and end up having one yourself instead which most likely leads to sex being over? If she doesn't have an orgasm from you humping her like a jack rabbit then you may want to take other approaches.
Try giving her an orgasm orally by licking and sucking lightly on or beside her clit. Normally doing this just beside her clit is enough stimulation to get her to reach the big O. But don't expect immediate reactions when you start doing it. It can take anywhere from a few minutes to an hour. Patience is a virtue but believe me when you please her she will return the favour.
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Bellaisa is an advocate for happy and stable relationships with yourself and with others and she has put together a site that has tips, articles, and resources for every stage of relationships called The Relationship Circle.
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